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    Posted by Pastor Dunamis Okunowo January 22, 2015

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The ABC Of Knowing True Love For Singles And Married Part 9

  • By Pastor Sophia
     
    I - Interesting
     
    Boredom is one of the killers of romantic love in relationship and marriage. Guard against a boring courtship and marriage. To have an interesting courtship and Marriage doesn't have to be expensive.
     
    You just need to be creative.
     
    No one is going to make your relationship interesting for you. It's a personal issue.
     
    So get creative. Find new ways of adding life to your relationship.
     
    Boredom can actually lead to jeru trip which is wrong as singles.
     
    This happens when both parties are idle and bored and find their bodies the only thing to discover and explore.
     
    To prevent pre-marital jeru trip, add other activities to your relationship.
     
    In courtship there should be alignment of the soul basically. Click To Tweet
     
    Where you begin to align your intellect, will and emotion.
     
    You build communication skills.
     
    You talk about your future plans, goals, dreams and anticipations.
     
    You ask intelligent questions about real life scenarios.
     
    Then you dream together about your future. Talk about your home, raising the children, finance, business etc.
     
    In marriage, continue to get interested in each other's affairs.
     
    Ask questions, don't just assume.
     
    You don't stop talking. Just because you are married and your wife is finally yours should not stop you from still wooing her. Click To Tweet
     
    Let your marriage be lively, romantic and interesting. Let your wife see you as a friend she is always looking forward to seeing and talking with.
     
    Go on a date, go to the cinema, take time out shopping or window shopping, go on vacation, go to parties or outings together.
     
    Take evening strolls. Go to the barbers or salons together. Cook a new recipe or your native food together. Laugh together.
     
    If you are bored, watch comedies together.
     
    By all means add romance, fun and creativity into your marriage.
     
    Your sexual life as couples should not be excluded. Add variety, creativity and excitement into your sexual life.
     
    Pro 5:18 (KJV)  
    Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.

    Make your spouse see you as an interesting person. Once a wife or husband begins to see his/ her spouse as being boring and uninteresting, room for extra marital affairs was just created.
     
    If you notice your spouse or lover grow uninterested in the relationship, don't just ignore or brush it aside, find out what's happening.
     
    During our own courtship, we didn't allow boredom. We shared our past experiences, present and of course future plans. Click To Tweet
     
    We talked about interesting and memorable events in our life.
     
    We payed, had confessions we took together. We read books together.
     
    We played and had good doses of laughter.
     
    I was and am still very much interested in my husband.
     
    We still have excitement in our marriage and we are still guarding against boredom and monotony.
     
    Do likewise and God bless your relationships and marriage.

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    CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
    My relationship/marriage is interesting

    PRAYER FOR THE DAY

    I rebuke every spirit of boredom in my relationship/marriage   

    THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
    Pro 5:18 (MSG)  
    Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man!

     
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