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  • Nigerian Newspaper Headlines - 18th June 2018
    Posted by Pastor Dunamis Okunowo Jun 1
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    Senators fault Babachir Lawal’s biased probe claim
     
    Power grid loses 1,087.6MW, eight stations shut
     
    Outrageous billing: Electricity consumers seek N’Assembly’s intervention
     
    Buhari administration transforming Nigeria –Lai Mohammed
     
    Makarfi declares presidential bid, battles Atiku for PDP ticket
     
    Nigerian jailed in UK for killing autistic teenager
     
    Police foil plan to kidnap customs deputy comptroller, family
     
    INEC registering foreigners to vote in 2019 – Southern, M’Belt leaders
     
    SARS operative threatened to drink my blood –HR manager
     
    Drunk naval rating stabs woman to death
     
    Lagos wants children’s rights prioritised
     
    APC convention: NWC meets to ratify delegates’ list on Tuesday
     
    Ekiti used N35bn to service Fayemi’s loan, claims PDP chair
     
    Convention: INEC backs Lagos APC’s delegates, court rules June 19
     
    BEDC cable vandals jailed for two years
     
    LG poll: PDP wins 23 chairmanship seats in Rivers
     
    C’River ‘spaghetti’ flyover, dual carriage to cost N18bn
     
    Flyovers not Sokoto’s priority, says Tambuwal
     
    Diarrhoea claims seven in Niger
     
    LASG screens 140 new waste collectors…distributes two million waste bags
     

    The Nation
    Senator urges Buhari to probe killing of Saro-Wiwa, Marshal Harry, others
     
    Falana to Fed Govt, INEC: prevent vote-buying in Ekiti and Osun polls
     
    NAFDAC urges Fed Govt to establish herbal medicine institute
     
    Electricity dips by 1,087mw due to gas rupture
     
    NEMA employees get enhanced service conditions
     
    Moghalu vows to fight poverty, drug abuse
     
    Barclays Africa joins NSE in July
     
    May & Baker signs sickle cell drug production deal
     
    APC chairmanship race: Kinsmen disown Osunbor
     
    Fayemi harassing our members with federal sars, says pdp
     
    Okorocha donates building to Imo NUJ
     
    Sanusi to Ganduje: convene security meeting to avert violence
     
    Obiano: no going back on Okada ban
     
    Olubadan stops chiefs’ masqurade dance
     
    Buhari deserves prayers, says Ondo lawmaker
     
    One killed, 29 arrested in Nasarawa cult clash
     
    Five feared dead in Bauchi rainstorm
     
    Oyo govt allays butchers’ fear over abattoir relocation
     
     
    Vanguard
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    We’ll Beat Iceland, Argentina To Qualify — Rohr
     
    FG Disburses Loans To 4,000 GEEP MarketMoni Beneficiaries In Edo
     
    DPR Moves To Ensure SOP In Petroleum Depots
     
    Police Nab Suspected Killer Of Enugu Monarch
     
    NDDC Not Competing With A-Ibom —Ekere
     
    Ibadan Chieftaincy Row: Olubadan Cancels Masquerade Dance In New Kings’ Compounds
     
    Alake Laments Decline In Reading Culture Among Youth
     
    Bwari Crisis: Again, FCTA Imposes Indefinite Curfew On Bwari Town
     
    Wike Lauds Awuse’s Commitment To Rivers State
     
    Ilaje Communities Accuses Ondo Govt Of Marginalisation, Injustice
     
    Osun Gov Poll: Buhari, Tinubu Not Working For My Ambition —PDP Aspirant
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Quality Time: ABC Of Knowing True Love Part 17

  • Q - Quality

    Time 

Quality Time is one of the five love languages as documented by Gary Chapman.


     
    There will never be true love without quality time spend together.
     
    No other thing has the capacity to replace quality time in a relationship or marriage Click to Tweet 


     
    Quality time is defined as 

“Time spent in giving another person one's undivided attention in order to strengthen a relationship"
     
    Note the words “undivided attention!”


     
    The attention has to be focused on each other.


     
    Every other thing, issues, persons take the back stage and you focus only on the person you are spending time with.


     
    That is when you can say that the time you have spent is a quality time. 


     
    A central aspect or area of quality time is togetherness. 


     
    Here are a few indicators to really tell you that quality time is being spent.


     
    1. Eye Contact 


     
    There must be eye contact.


     
    Men have the capacity to say they are listening to you while they are listening to news on TV, checking their e-mails on their phones, all at the same time.
     
    

Well, this is not quality time!
     
    

Quality time entails your total attention, with eye-to-eye contact. 


     
    2. Empathic Listening
     
    Quality time requires empathic listening which is putting yourself in shoes of the talker to really feel what he or she is feeling.
     
    

It entails deliberate and focused attention so that the person talking can be understood.
     
    

3. No Interruptions


     
    Refuse the urge to interrupt. 


     
    Incessant interruptions takes the “quality” out of quality time. 



    Interruptions can end up turning quality time to quarreling time. Click to Tweet 


     
    4. Offer sympathy, Not a Lecture 


     
    While giving quality time, refuse the urge to advise, lecture, preach or sermonize. 


     
    Most times, especially in women, they are just looking to see if you understand them.


     
    They don’t even want instant solutions, they just want an understanding person.
     
    

Are you an understanding fiance or husband?
     
    

Try and be understanding and you will enjoy her more.
     
    

I am going to stop here this morning


     
    I pray that God will grant more understanding.
     
    A word out to all KHC Partners, God will honor you continually. Pastor Sophia and I, our church staff are praying for you everyday without fail and confessing God’s word over you. 

Be blessed!







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    I am patient

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    Lord, teach me to be patient with my loved one

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    "Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken."  (Ecc 4:9-12, KJV)

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