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I pay 80% of the bills

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    November 9, 2016 6:20 AM CET
    My wife works with a financial institution and earns four times than I do.
    I pay about 80% of the bills but things are getting expensive by the day.
    She has refused to take up some financial responsibilities, despite my explanations, saying that's the "job" of the man.
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    November 16, 2016 12:32 PM CET

    Hmm, i understand your burden sir. I think its quite unfair that she has refused to offer more help since she has more funds.

    Please, dont let this issue wear you down or break your home. Dont let it cause resentment in your heart, as it can lead to loss of passion.

    I want you to just focus on yourself, take the challenge to GOD. Let God open up the heavens for you and change your level.

    Pray for her too, that the spirit of true love will fill her heart; That she will sacrifice and flfill her role as helper to you.

    Be grateful for what you have. Give thanks to God. Keep doing your fuctions as husband and father. God will send you help soon.