May 11, 2017 10:04 PM CEST
When you submit to Christ and make him the no 1 in your life, Submitting and Loving your spouse would not be a problem. Yes it might not be easy, especially in situations when the guy is acting funny and in a way that you want to bite his head off...
You remember the place of Christ, and keep your cool. You remebe that you have a father to answer to....
Because, see. You would have to answer to Christ about how you lived your marriage...
As a christian, you just have to drop everything..anger, malice, strife, bitterness, unforgiveness, Jealousy... Etc..
How can you pray , when you are holding a grudge against somebody..now talkess of your husband.
Just let it go. Once you become a born again christian, all these attributes shouldn't be found in you.
You work continuously on them. They are the fruits of flesh...and if you live according to the works of flesh...They would kill you slowly...
That's why its very important to know who you marry..
He must be one that fears God, that is ready to lead you in the way of chirst, that loves God.
Some may be deceivers, but do not be confused!
Bible says' by their fruits ye shall know them.
Ask God to reveal who he truly is to you....
Mark 12:30-31King James Version (KJV)
30 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.
31 And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.
When you Love God, you would want to obey him and treat your spouse as God ordains it to be.
You would let go and let God.
You become broken..because you know God would fight for you.
Then Love him as you Love yourself,as you would treat yourself, treat him....
You don't need to be at logger head with him, fighting every time, keep scores etc. Enjoy your home, make it a happy relationship, Forgive easily and quickly, Let go of all selfish thinking's....
I pray God would give us more understanding in Jesus name. Amen
When you submit to Christ and make him the no 1 in your life, Submitting and Loving your spouse would not be a problem. Yes it might not be easy, especially in situations when the guy is acting funny and in a way that you want to bite his head off...