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This is not about the pastor or the girl. It is about the guy and where he came from. It about the revelation the pastor saw if the pastor is not speaking carnally. I want us to be sensitive about the pastor word, "egypt" we all know what kind of nation egypt is and what the people of israelite went through.. if i were this lady i will have to seek the face of God again because the pastor might not be able to say no directly to the lady but his countenance is saying No, please seek the face of God again in other for you not to be deprive of you serving your God in the land of egypt. we human being can hide under the umbrella of being born again in a way that if you are not spiritual you wont know we are not. shallom.
This is a very controversial issue. Personally most of the relationship my pastor kicked agianst never worked. Surprisingly,they did not tell me the person's fault,they just said they have prayed and there is something i can't see. True to it,i continued and i later discovered some hidden truth and took to my heels. I also know no true pastor wants to loose a daughter he has trained,lets be factual. If we were pastors,we would feel the same way. I advise you hold on and take time to fast and pray and let God give you specific words. In my case,I kept talking to God till i was clear the relationship was not of God.On the other hand,My mentor had same issue but the pastor was just being sentimental because he had invested so much in the young lady.It took the intervention of a higher spiritual authority form the man's side to talk to the pastor who disagreed before to agree.He then had to let her marry the young and promising man of God. she is doing so well. She married the her pastor fiance and they are doing fine.They are even teaching the younger generation chastity and relationship. Its your decision. I advise you take things slowly and time has a way of revealing truth. Wish you well
I also want to say that there are people who you must listen to when it comes to issues like this. Listen to them,pick what they are trying to pass on and then you can weigh your decision.They are your parents and your pastors. If this once has been a blessing to you and they have always put their life in the line for you,then they won't suddenly hate you because you want to get married. Personally,i listen to my pastors most of the time and they counsel based on the word.I also sometimes know what to do but i still listen to hear what they say,it matches up with what God has told me.I listen to my parents for corrections but when it comes to life partner issue,i know my family;they would go for the rich one with secured job even if he is not saved as far as his nice. I am wise enough to know that a wrong decision. So dearest,such decision should be taken prayerfully. Work on your spiritual growth, Pray in tongues daily. You would find yourself in God's will without confusion. I have experienced this before.