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Is it worth waiting for?
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I have been in a relationship wit a man for the past 9yrs. I got a 2yrs visa last 3mnth ago n he has travelled now. Bt I beg him to do court wedding wit men but he refused. No introduction before he left, bt some of his family members wanted us to do something bt he refused I said he wants to go n when he comes back we can do smtin. Bt I want to ask,is it what waiting for. -
I don't think so, for 9years? He is leaving now not even an introduction? Please is not at all,.. Left for me the guy is not serious with you.. He has travel overseas now, he does not even know when he is coming back,.. Am sure you are not getting any younger... Please just move on with your life o.... Think seriously about it.. The Lord will see your through -
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Sis. Abeg leave the man he is not meant for you and dnt bé surprised that he will comeback from oversea with a woman. As Pst. Dunamis used to say" it doesnt take eternity for a man to propose" . Moreover, you cannot put your life on hold for nine years for a man that doesnt worth it. Get your life back and start a fresh. Stay bless! -
9 years is a long time. I agree with what everyone else has said but I suggest you have a serious conversation with him first (it might be a good idea to have someone you both respect to be there). Ask him to explain why he's making this stance. Then you tell him your side of the story. If he's been with you for 9 years he loves you and hopefully he will listen. Two cannot walk together unless they agree.
Depending on his response, some prayer and good counsel. You will know if it's worth waiting for. -
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