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A Good Lover Is Like A Good Car Part 2

Good morning. We continue from where we stopped yesterday.
3. A car that is not constantly serviced will break down

A vehicle that will last has to visit the auto-engineer regularly for servicing. This has nothing to do with choice, it has a lot to do with necessity.
If it is not serviced, it will seem okay for a while, but it would soon break down.

And so an intending lover who doesn’t go for servicing in church services is a spiritual risk.

He or she cannot even think straight because the oil filter of his mind has not be changed, it's completely dirty.
It is what the Bible refers to as unrenewed mind.

When you take your car for servicing, it feels different as you drive it afterwards. It has just undergone a transformation. 

So, the scriptures tells us that:

Rom 12:2 (KJV)  

And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

Just as a car undergoes a transformation in servicing, a believer undergoes transformation by attending church services where his mind is being renewed.


Don’t fall in love with someone who doesn’t value God’s presence and who doesn’t go to church. 

Am I saying that everybody that goes to church is good? No. But it is important not to get involved with someone who disregards God.
4. A car that breaks down often is a disappointment 

What is the value of a car that is constantly breaking down, a regular disappointment?
It is of no use. In fact, it is more of a liability.

It is the same way for a lover that has broken the relationship seven times in six months.
You are simply not on the same page.
He or she is probably trying to salvage things because of what he is getting, not because of genuine love.

The owner of the car that is constantly breaking down hates that car, he might just be keeping it because it is still useful for short distance trips, or to pick kids in school.
At the slightest opportunity, he will sell off the car and drop it like hot potatoes!
Has he or she disappointed you severally with unfaithfulness? Be careful because he is showing you samples of what will eventually happen after marriage.

If you test drive a car and it breaks down twice before paying for it, the car is telling you what your experience will be after buying it.
Will you still go ahead and buy that car?

5. A car you can’t drive is a point of frustration 

What is the point of a car you cannot drive?

What is the point of getting married to an unavailable person?

What is the point of falling in love with a Facebook profile?

What is the wisdom in falling in love with a voice?

Do you want to drive an online car?

So, why give your heart out to someone you have not seen or met?

Oh, yes, you can meet a prospective lover online, just like you can see a car you like online.

But just as you wouldn’t want to pay for a car you haven’t seen or you are not sure of, you really don’t want to offer your heart to someone you have never seen or met!

Now, I am in no way trying to say that lovers are cars, we are just drawing parallels and illustrations from what we can really understand.

I pray that God will guide, give us wisdom and lead by His Spirit in Jesus name.

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Lord, Bless me indeed!

I cancel every plan of the devil over my life in Jesus name


Rom 12:9 (KJV)  
Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good.


Praise God today


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