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A Heart To Heart Talk With Wives

Dear wives, I would like to quickly point out three areas you should always be sensitive to when it comes to your husband.
You would never know how important this area is because you are a woman!
The needs of a woman are miles apart from that of men.
So when you process things with your mind and what you think he wants without finding out what he thinks he really need, the wife could get easily frustrated.
To make it worse, he may never explain or break it down for you because he is egocentric.
All you will see is that he is angry, over reacts, bellows at you or just simply withdrawn.
When a man who used to talk simply goes quiet, he is troubled heavily.
When a man who used to be quiet and unassuming starts fuming and getting angry at slight provocations, there are deeper issues.
By no means am I justifying anger and reactions in marriage, they are wrong, but we are truing to see what could be the underlying issues.
There are many areas, but I want to identify some very critical areas.
1. Never ever disrespect your husband, privately or publicly.
If you do so, he is going to get angry. Don't pull him down. Don't embarrass him. Don't ever compare him with another man.
Disrespect can be two ways.
Expressed disrespect or hidden disrespect in the heart which then shows in your body language and attitudes.
Whichever way, he could sense disrespect and he will not be happy about it. You see him throwing tantrums without knowing why.
You see him disconnecting and almost behaving childishly, well, it is usually bothering on disrespect.
When you respect your husband and he knows so, you will enjoy the best of him.
As a wife, do not be stubborn. Be yielded. Stubbornness, refusal to apologise and unnecessary confrontation would all be seen as disrespect and would drive you apart the more.
Subordinate. Adapt.
1Pe 3:1 (AMPC)  
IN LIKE manner, you married women, be submissive to your own husbands [subordinate yourselves as being secondary to and dependent on them, and adapt yourselves to them], so that even if any do not obey the Word [of God], they may be won over not by discussion but by the [godly] lives of their wives,
Defer to him. Show him respect in all ways. Revere him. Adore him. Show him honour. Express your appreciation of him.
You will enjoy him more.
1Pe 3:2 (AMPC)  
When they observe the pure and modest way in which you conduct yourselves, together with your reverence [for your husband; you are to feel for him all that reverence includes: to respect, defer to, revere him--to honor, esteem, appreciate, prize, and, in the human sense, to adore him, that is, to admire, praise, be devoted to, deeply love, and enjoy your husband].
Admire him. Stop admiring other men to his face. Stop showing preference for other men you met for a few hours than your husband who has lived with you for ten years. Stop comparing him in your heart.
It is a senseless and foolish idea to be constantly preferring other men to your husband. Are you ever going to marry them?
Why don't you concentrate your energy on this one you have married rather than wish what would never happen?
It is futile, energy wasting and when you are older, you will regret doing so because you will suddenly discover you wasted so many years never appreciating and accepting who God has give you as your head.
Many years of productivity would have been wasted in quarrels and strife, in stubborn dispositions and never enjoying the best of married life.
Decide today to respect, honour your husband and value him, not just with your mouth, but with your heart and in the very depth of your heart.
This is how to honour God also because the scripture says just like God is the head of Christ, Christ is the head of the man, so is your husband the head of you.
1Co 11:3 (KJV)  
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
1Co 11:3 (MSG)  
In a marriage relationship, there is authority from Christ to husband, and from husband to wife. The authority of Christ is the authority of God.
Blessings and unctions would flow through him to you!
The sober truth is this:
When you deride your husband within, when you refuse to accept his headship in your heart, when you constantly aggravate him, when you refuse to listen to him and so on, you will cut short on your greatness! Prayers will be grounded!
I rest my case here. You can check the bible more on this.
Wise up and decide to to go for the best in God!

I will be talking to men later o!
I will protect my marriage
Lord, open my eyes!
Pro 25:11 (KJV)
A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.
Study the word "respect"
2 Chronicles 32-33
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Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...