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Between Him And Her, Who Does The Proposing?

Today, we continue the series on what Singles and Married Couples can Learn from Adam and Eve.
1. God will present, but will not help you to propose.
And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. (Genesis 2:22 KJV)
Some people are deeply spiritual. So spiritual they probably wanted God to help them propose or answer a proposal. Well, it is not as complicated.
What God will do is that He will present you with opportunities and guidance, but He will always allow you to make up your mind. That is why the scriptures says:
Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord. (Proverbs 18:22 KJV)
Whoso findeth… this is obviously talking to men. Men are the ones that do the finding, not the ladies.
Right now, look around you. Your friends, church folks, classmates, relationships around you, those are all the people God has presented to you. You are to prayerfully make a choice once you are at a marriageable age. You are to be led by God’s Spirit, because when you ask Him, He will lead you and you wouldn’t have to be proposing to several people. God still leads. It is not compulsory you have a dream or vision or hear a voice, it could just be inner witness or even circumstantial leading.
I am very certain that God’s design for a good relationship is not to start having boyfriends or girlfriends all over the place and be toying with your emotions in experimental relationships. God certainly wants to lead, if you allow Him.
And do you know one thing? God will not lead you wrong!
If you are already married, presentation opportunities are over. Stay with your spouse and enjoy the wife of your youth, the scripture advises. Focus on God and then on your spouse. That is the secret to a successful marriage.
7. The man is to propose, not the lady
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. (Genesis 2:23 KJV)
Men are the aggressors, ladies are the responders. Men are supposed to woo ladies.
As a lady, don’t take the lead in asking a man out. It is not scriptural. You will be found, trust God on that. Don’t manipulate and don’t be suggestive so that the guy will not take advantage of you. Men are hunters by nature; don’t tamper with that “hunter” in him! Let him value you by coming after you.
The guy that is not ready to “chase” and “woo” is not worth it.
Why is this so important?
Wooing is a lifetime assignment, even for husbands after marriage. If you want to keep the fire of your marriage burning, keep wooing your wife. It is a very powerful principle! The source of a thing is often time the sustenance of that thing.
Whatever you did to her while you were “toasting” her should not be stopped after marriage. If you wrote letters, keep writing. If you bought flowers, keep buying. If you used to take her out and her eyes would brighten up, then you shouldn’t be wondering why she has been downcast when you have not taken her out in six months!
For those trusting God for job this week, I declare the heaven opened over your life this week in Jesus name! I declare angelic interventions on your behalf in Jesus name! Be blessed!

God will guide me. I will not be confused.

Spirit of God, lead me and guide my paths. Give me wisdom in my relationship/marriage 


Find a good spouse, you find a good life–– and even more:the favor of God! (Proverbs 18:22 Message)

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Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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