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Dear Pastor, What About Oral, Is It Okay For Me?

There are a few things believers get into and kind of take for granted. Somehow, they hope, it should be fine, but the reality is that they are wrong, sinful and dangerous.
 
Dead wrong!
 
Recently, I have had to deal with many young people who are into this, and I want to write a few things about it this morning.
 
The media, the environment, the pressures and all are singing loudly that some of these things are okay, but God’s word is clear on them.
 
One of such is oral sex or what is called cunnilingus or fellatio.
 
You know that jeru trip is a sin outside marriage. You are sure of that. But somehow, you and your lover have concluded that since oral is not penetrative, you are good.
 
Well, the news is that you are not good.
 
Spiritually, mentally and physically, you are not good.
 
Spiritually, you are disconnected from God. You may still be going to church o. You may even be an active member of workforce or even be a leader, all these do not change anything. Sin is sin. You may not be feeling bad about it any longer, because your conscience is seared, this changes nothing as well.
 
David felt nothing after murder and adultery and yet it didn’t change anything about the fact that he had offended God.
 
Mentally, you are not good as well. Your mind is riddled with dirt and perversion to be able to continue in that kind of act and still come to lift some holy hands!
 
Do I sound a little hard? Truth can be hard to swallow, but if you can swallow it, the truth will set you free.
 
I am not here to condemn anybody. I am not here to judge. My assignment is simply to declare God’s counsel, and raise a banner of truth in the midst of a failing and perverse generation.
 
And that I will continue to do. Even if it is unpopular.
 
That is what I have been called to do and I am not going to be apologetic about it.
 
You can go ahead and listen to all those Grace messages flying around that grace covers for your continuous sexual perversion. It will not cover o!
 
Rom 6:1-2 (KJV) 

What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? [2] God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein?


 
Rom 6:1-2 (AMPC)
WHAT SHALL we say [ to all this ]? Are we to remain in sin in order that God's grace (favor and mercy) may multiply and overflow? [2] Certainly not! How can we who died to sin live in it any longer?
 
Rom 6:1-2 (MSG)
So what do we do? Keep on sinning so God can keep on forgiving? [2] I should hope not! If we've left the country where sin is sovereign, how can we still live in our old house there?
 
The purpose of grace is not to shield you while you continue in sin, it is to shield you from being overcome by sin!
 
These deception has ended many promising destinies. Beware!
 


1Pe 2:16 (AMPC) 

[ Live ] as free people, [ yet ] without employing your freedom as a pretext for wickedness; but [ live at all times ] as servants of God.
 
On the physical, you are not good as well. There are risks of diseases that are waiting to be caught! Diseases can be transmitted once fluids is involved.
 
But Pastor, there is no where that the Bible says specifically we should not do this!
 
I also want to ask, is there anywhere specifically that the Bible says you should not put rat poison in your food? So, why are you not doing that? You know it is not good for you! And so you don’t do it, you never wait for what the Bible says!
 
 
You don't want to die!
 
So why are you suddenly searching for that word “oral” in the Bible? You will never find it, but if you study your Bible well, you know this act is dead wrong and sinful.
 
Let’s take a look.


 
Eph 5:3 (KJV)
But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints;
 
Take note of “all uncleanness”


 
Eph 5:3 (AMPC)
But immorality (sexual vice) and all impurity [ of lustful, rich, wasteful living ] or greediness must not even be named among you, as is fitting and proper among saints (God's consecrated people).
 
Take note of “immorality (sexual vice) and all impurity”
 
One more verse:
 
Heb 13:4 (AMPC) 

Let marriage be held in honor (esteemed worthy, precious, of great price, and especially dear) in all things. And thus let the marriage bed be undefiled (kept undishonored); for God will judge and punish the unchaste [ all guilty of sexual vice ] and adulterous.


 
Heb 13:4 (MKJV) 

Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled, but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
 
The word "fornicators" in Hebrews 13:4 comes from the Greek word pornos. In classical Greek it referred to a person using the services of a prostitute, but in the New Testament, its meaning includes anyone engaged in sexual activity outside the realm of marriage.
 
Since oral includes sexual body parts, it falls in this category.
 


I say no more!
 
So what do you do if you are involved?
 
Stop ni o!
 
Tell your lover, Eh, you will not destroy my life, I am not “doing” again!
 
Go to God and ask Him to forgive you. Genuinely ask for His mercy. And never go there again! If your lover insists, it is time to let that lover go!
 
Why would someone reduce you into that posture and you keep mouthing that day after day?
 
It's time to rebel against manipulative perversion in your life!
 
This year, make up your mind not to slow yourself down. If you feel too weak about this decision and you need to be prayed for, call me, I will pray for you and agree with you!
 
But make up your mind.
 
It’s all about your future, the gloriousness of your future and the fulfillment of God’s purpose for your life!
 
You will not be discarded!
 
You will not be laid aside!
 
You will not regret!
 
God will have mercy on you!
 
Be blessed and have a great weekend!

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CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am free from all perversion
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY

Father, set me free in Jesus name

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 

Heb 13:4 (MSG)  
Honor marriage, and guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy between wife and husband. God draws a firm line against casual and illicit sex.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY

Make up your mind today.

READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR 

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