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Do Not Ask A Guy For Sex

Don’t make the mistake of asking for sex during your courtship. The guy already wants it anyway!

I remember when I was courting my wife, born again or not, I felt like having sex! Thank God, He kept us by His grace! My body wanted it, my soul imagined it, and my spirit told me I would be finished if I tried it!
You see, when you are in love with someone, your flesh wants to experience that person at the highest level but that can only be achieved through sex in marriage!
My body told me, go ahead and do it and feel the ecstasy! My soul told me, go ahead, and do it and ask for forgiveness afterwards, God will forgive! My spirit told me, you do it, and your ministry is finished!
So, I resolved to keep myself. And God helped me. Now, it would be another story entirely, if my fiancée then, started asking me for sex. If she wouldn’t allow me to rest, if I visit her in her room and she is removing her blouse, I would probably have compromised, ministry or no ministry!
But thank God she didn’t do such a thing!
As a lady, don’t make the mistake of asking your fiancé for sex! You see, the lady is more controlled, because a guy is ready for sex in less than ten seconds! A lady takes time before she is ready, so she is more in control.
But now, when she begins to ask directly, as a guy, you better escape for your life, or you will soon forget about your God! Constant pressure will make you bow at the altar of compromise.
How do I mean, escape?
You see, the only solution the scripture offers you when you are faced with a sexual compromise is to run away
Flee also youthful lusts… (2 Timothy 2:22a KJV)
Flee fornication. (1 Corinthians 6:18a KJV)
The word “flee” means to “run away as in terror”
That means you should run away as if Boko Haram is around!
When the scriptures says, “flee,” don’t come around and say “Let’s reason together!”
You cannot be more spiritual than God! The girl you love so much is removing her blouse and fiddling with your shirt and you are speaking in tongues? Even the angels guiding you have flown away, because their eyes would not behold evil!
It doesn’t matter if you are the prayer leader or even the pastor; when you are confronted with sexual trap, run away, use your legs, because your mind could be numbed at such times.
I have God's wisdom in dealing with my fiance

Lord, give me grace to run my race in righteousness and integrity


There is a sense in which sexual sins are different from all others. In sexual sin we violate the sacredness of our own bodies, these bodies that were made for God–given and God–modeled love, for "becoming one" with another. (1 Corinthians 6:18 Message)

Decide to stop every form of compromise!

1 Chronicles 13-16

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Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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