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Do Not Stay Over In His Place

Pastor! You’ve come again! Is that a sin?

Well, it is not a sin. But it will lead you into sin. You will never find any scripture where it says, “thou shall not sleep over in the house of thy loved one.”
But is it wise or expedient to do such a thing? No, it is not wise to do so. If there is no wisdom in an action, we can rightly say that the action is foolish. Therefore, it is plain foolishness to go and sleep over in his place when you are not married.
Some things are not necessarily sinful in themselves, but they can be dangerous. Using rat poison as curry and thyme to cook rice is not a sin, but the experimental cook may not live to tell the story!
If you are planning to get married, and he does not pester you with coming over to stay in his place, and you know he doesn’t have other girlfriends he is using to “fill in the gap,” then he is a good man. You should respect that.
It is not that he doesn’t feel like have some sex, it is because he is mature and he has the fear of God. Every man feels like tasting it, but if he never pesters you, you need to respect that. You don’t go and ask him if you can come over!
Ladies need to understand how to allow God to preserve their relationships so that it leads to marriage. It is not something you can do by yourself.
Listen, you will never be able to preserve or “insure” a relationship with sex. It will never work, because that is not how God has instituted it.
You want to tie down a man with sex? Well, he looses himself immediately, after you tie him, as in five minutes after, he’s gone. Then the next day, you will need to tie him again. You keep tying him and he keeps loosing himself, and when he is tired of you, he will loose himself and go away!
When you make yourself available like that, he is wondering and thinking how many guys you are doing that for. This is because a man is logical. A lady is relationship oriented, so she thinks if she can offer her body, the deal is sealed. No, you just ruptured the deal, because, the one that really keeps a relationship is God. So when you displease God, things are not going to work.
I once spoke to a lady who called me on phone and lamented that there is a curse over her life because she cannot find a husband to marry.
Upon interviewing her, I saw where things went wrong. She is sexually involved with a married man, and somehow she still thinks that things will work out that way. She will go to church, pray, have vigils, and then go over to his place for sex sessions!
Her husband will never find her like that. The prayers and vigils are religious exercises that will amount to waste of time and energy. That scenario is a combination of religious spirit and spirit of deception.
You see, there are things you do, and nothing will ever work out. It doesn’t matter how many deliverance sessions you have done or if you are the only person that cleans the whole church, if you keep going back to do what you are not supposed to do, you get God handicapped in doing what He wants to do in your life and you practically slow yourself down!
That is why the scripture says, “God is not mocked!”
You cannot corner God with some religious exercise!
In conclusion, God’s arms are ever open to embrace you and give you a new start when you genuinely repent and decide to regulate your life by His principles. Jesus told the woman caught in adultery, “I do not condemn you, but go and sin no more!
That voice is still reverberating across generations and transcending above societal norms and technological inventions, “Go and sin no more!”
Check your life and clean up. Don’t slow yourself down.
May God grant us all more wisdom!

I will not disobey God in order to please man

Pray that God will make you more sensitive to God's ways of doing things


She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee:go, and sin no more. (John 8:11 KJV)

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2 Samuel 6-7; 1 Chronicles 17

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Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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