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Five Unladylike Statements You Should Avoid

Men are logical. Women are emotional. 



 
Men feast on what they see. Women feast on what they hear.


 
A man interprets love by the way he sees your respect for him. A woman interprets love by the words she hears you say to her.
 
When God made woman, he presented her to Adam. His first encounter with a woman is to see and discover her body, hence his statement, bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh. He saw something, hence he is moved by sight.
 


In the first encounter of a woman with man, she heard words. As soon as she set eyes on Adam, he was toasting her! She heard something, hence she is moved by words.
 
From that time on, her brain was set, she enjoys being “toasted!” That is why she goes like “are you sure?” when you tell her “I love you,” not because she is doubting you but because she enjoys it and wants to hear more.
 


A man loves actions. He wants to be respected and he wants sex.


 
A woman loves words. She wants to speak and wants to be spoken to. That is why she speaks an average of twenty five thousand words in a day as against ten thousands words that a man speaks.

 Hence words are very important to her.


 
The church is the bride of Jesus Christ. How is Jesus handling the church?
 
Through washing of the water by the word!
 
"That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word," (Eph 5:26, KJV).
 
He is cleansing the church by His spoken words unto the church.
 

Here are five statements you should never make to your fiancee.
 
1. You are just too slow!

She would never be as fast or nimble as you. That is why she is a lady. She will always take her time to make-up and look good. That is why you are attracted to her.
 
Don’t say words like “Baby, why do you do things in slow motion?”


 
When you tell that she is too slow, she doesn't just understand you. 

When you keep saying she is too slow, then she actually becomes slower.
 
Tell her words like, “Baby, I love your speed!” She will understand and adjust!
 


I jokingly say, ladies are Pentium 1, 1 Gig Ram as against a man’s Pentium 7, 8 Gig Ram!
 
So, what do you do? Learn to be patient and have a way of managing time well. 


 
2. I regret getting into a relationship with you
That statement is worse than the pain inflicted by the sharpest of the surgeon’s scalpel. Such statement will lacerate and create deep gashes of wounds within the inner entrails of a lady.
 
To her, words are either building her up or tearing her down.


 
The moment you make utterances like that, you actually begin to experience such because words are like snares.


 
"Thou art snared with the words of thy mouth, thou art taken with the words of thy mouth." (Pro 6:2, KJV)


 
When you are angry, keep quiet and don't say things you will regret later to your fiancee or wife.
 
3. I must have sex!
If you are not married, don't ask for it from a lady. It shows you respect her and you value her person, not just her body.
 
Asking for such outside of marriage does not show your love, it actually shows your lust.
 
Yes, as a man, your body wants it. You feel like it. You think it. But maturity is waiting. When you learn to wait, then you will also not cheat on her after marriage.
 That is what separates the men from the boys.
 
But when your relationship before marriage is bounded on the North by kissing, on the South by Petting, on the East by oral sex and on the West by sex, after marriage, you would have trained yourself to cheat on each other.


 
If somebody disobeys God with you, He will also disobey God against you, unless he or she repents and turns a new leaf.
 
Anybody that sins with you will soon sin against you.


 
I will stop here this morning! Have a beautiful day!


CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will say the right words. My words will edify and build up
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, teach my mouth to say the right words
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

"The words of a man's mouth are as deep waters, and the wellspring of wisdom as a flowing brook." (Pro 18:4, KJV)
 
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY

Say something good and beautiful to her today
 
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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...