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Giving Names And Sleeping Your Way Into Marriage

 

Yesterday, we looked at three things that Singles and Married Couples can learn from Adam and Eve. We looked at
 
1. Man was made from the breath of God.
 
2. For man, work came before marriage
 
3. There is a difference between aloneness and loneliness
 
Let's learn a few more things this morning.
 
This morning, we are looking at more.
 
4. You must know how to give names
 
And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him. (Genesis 2:20 KJV)
 
Adam named all the animals, from cattle to the fowl of the air and every beast of the field. He became a nomenclature expert.
 
To succeed in relationship management, you must learn how to give names appropriately to everybody around you.
 
 
Your boss is your superior; he is not your lover. Things should not be turned upside down.
 
Your lecturer is meant to teach you academics, and not take you to bed for practical.
 
Dear Youth Corper, you are meant to teach that young girl Chemistry, not take advantage of her naivety and take her to bed.
 
He is your colleague, not one to discuss your matrimonial challenges lest there be an emotional connection.
 
Let the cattle remain as cattle and let the fowls remain as fowls.
 
The scripture above says, Adam named every cattle, but there was not found an help meet for him.
 
The implication is that not everybody can become your spouse. You cannot be falling in love with everybody that comes your way and keep saying you can’t help it.
 
There are friends, acquaintances, classmates, colleagues, yet none of them qualify as a spouse until the issue of direction is settled with God.
 
Don’t settle with cattle, or fowl or beast of the field, wait for your Adam or Eve! What would have happened if Adam had looked at the female baboon and said this is the bone of my bones and the flesh of my flesh…you can guess how you will look today!
 
5. Guys, go to sleep.
 
And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; (Genesis 2:21 KJV)
 
Take a cue from Adam, it was when Adam slept that God was able to perfect the presentation of his wife. You have been too noisy and too mobile, go and sit down somewhere and let God do His work! Think about it, upon all your sweet mouth and relationship skills, where is the loved one?
 
Learn from Adam, go to sleep.
 
The responsibility of God is to cause a deep sleep to fall upon Adam; the responsibility of Adam was to sleep. Adam could said, “No way, I am not sleeping!” But the scripture says, he slept!
 
When he slept, God went to work
 
No wonder the scriptures says:
 
Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth. (Psalms 46:10 KJV)
 
Yes, be still. Stop sampling around! How can one brother propose to seven sisters in the same church? Who is leading you? Each time, you keep saying, “God said..” Are you sure God said?
 
 
Be still, then you will see God in your relationship or marriage. Ladies, stop being suggestive and stop spending your money to buy things for him. Let God help you by calming down!
 
How I love the Message Translation:
"Step out of the traffic! Take a long, loving look at me, your High God, above politics, above everything." (Psalms 46:10 Message)
 
Yes, I conclude with that this morning, step out of the traffic. Focus on God and you will surely see His salvation in your relationship and marriage!
 
Be blessed today!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not be hasty
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY

Lord, direct me and help me to make the right decision as a single. As married, Lord, give me wisdom to relate better with my spouse.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 

He that is slow to wrath is of great understanding: but he that is hasty of spirit exalteth folly.(Proverbs 14:29 KJV)


ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Be still before God

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Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...