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Here Are Things I Had To Deal With Before Marriage Part 2

I started this discussion yesterday where we looked at 5 things we must let go of before we say 'I do'.
 
 
Today, I will continue with the topic.


 
4. My money is my own
 
As you plan to go into marriage, you must understand your money is not yours any more, it belongs to you and your spouse. 


 
You can no longer decide to use the money for whatever you want without planning together. It now becomes a joint decision.
 
As a wife there is a joint responsibility to take care of the home and children. 

You have to weigh your options.
 
You may not necessarily buy every thing that appeals to your taste. You have to be calculative with every spending. You don't just roll out gifts to people without consulting your husband. 

 
Husbands that are not prudent and careless with their spending without consulting their wives may end up in financial crisis.
 
Transparency in finances also help guide against extra marital affairs.


 
You must also understand the principle of tithing and sowing. Without tithing, you simply exclude yourselves from the covenant of financial blessings.
 
5. I have to be cared for
 
There is nothing wrong with this mindset as it were because in marriage we are supposed to be loved and cared for.
The problem is that when you go into marriage totally focused on being cared for, you lose the essence of marriage which is giving rather than receiving. 


 
Marriage is a calling, where you are willing to serve the other person. You see, being cared for and loved are dividends of marriage and not rights to be demanded for.
 


In marriage you don't demand, you allow God to take care of you through your spouse. 

By the time you are demanding to be loved and cared for, you end up putting pressure on your spouse to perform.


 
Rather decide to show love and you will eventually get it back, pressed down, shaken together.
 
6. Marriage is not a Restaurant or a Super market
 
People often have this erroneous believe that marriage is a place you can just enter like a restaurant, relax, order what you want and have a waiter serve you. 


 
The food is already well prepared, kept hot and the table well laid.
 
If the food is not tasting too good, you complain immediately where the manager apologies profusely and offers you something else to soothe your displeasure.
 
If the food is well made, you don’t owe them any appreciation since that’s what they are there for anyway. 


 
And after a sumptuous meal, you stand up and of course leave the dirty dishes to be cleared by another person.
 
Marriage definitely is not like that except in story books. 


 
Marriage is not a super market where you just come in, pick what you want and leave to come back another time you are in need of something else.
 
You can really liken marriage to a garden, a meal or a school. 

Here you only reap what you sow. Your labor put in will determine your output. 


 
There is a Yoruba proverb that says, If you want a good pot of stew, be ready to spend good money. 

In marriage nothing just happens.
 
Blissful marriage happens because both man and woman were ready to pay whatever price needed to be paid, without excuses.
 
In marriage you tend your garden or no beauty will come forth. 

You plant roses if you love the smell of roses. 


 
You don’t expect roses to supernaturally appear if you have not laboured and planted the roses.


 
May God grant more understanding.
 


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