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How Can You Just End The Relationship Like That?

The intense sunlight burned into her skin with such fury that one thinks it is a deliberate punishment for ending a promising relationship.
 
She walked home slowly, adamant, mind made up with a resolve not to go back there!
 
Stella had just angrily ended her courtship with Jack because of a suspicious text she saw on his phone.
 
Stella didn't give Jack a chance to explain anything, in fact Jack didn't know why she was calling it off.
 
The reality is that the said SMS text was sent by Chindinma, Jack’s cousin whom he hadn’t introduced to her. Her use of the word “dear” was the straw that broke the camel’s back!
 
Jack was confused, but Stella had moved on indeed!
 
Jack couldn’t fathom the whole drama. Eventually, he got to know the crux of Stella’s anger and he was even more amazed.
 
How can something so insignificant, so minute, so inconsequential end a promising three year relationship?
 
"But I prayed about this relationship?"
 
It wasn’t as if he had been unfaithful. He was almost concluding that they must be following him from the village!
 
Dear Pastor, what do you have to say?
 
1. Every time something so unexplainably minute ends a relationship, let it end.
 
2. Sometimes, what we call rejection is actually direction.
 
3. Do not beg anybody who wants to end a relationship. It should be mutual. Begging can bring manipulation into the equation. The other person will use it against you all your life. There is a difference between begging and tendering an apology.
 
4. When a person ends a relationship, the person already ended it many days before then, only looking for an opportunity to announce it.
 
5. End of a relationship is not end of a life. Restart.
 
6. Do not rush into another relationship. Allow time to heal
 
7. Pray very well. Be led by the Holy Spirit and not by emotions
 
8. Most times, it is even because of your prayers that something absurd happens and then it all ends. God is trying to protect you from a wrong marriage. A person can be good and yet not be the right person for you.
 
I pray for you, may God orchestrate events in your favour in Jesus name!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am led of God 
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY

Lord, take away every foolishness from my life

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 

Php 1:9 (KJV)  ?
And this I pray, that your love may abound yet more and more in knowledge and in all judgment;


ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray in the Spirit 

READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR 
Exodus 25 - 27

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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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