Don't Copy!

Kindly note we STRONGLY disallow COPYING of entire article and PASTING somewhere else on blogs, whats-app or social media. Instead, kindly use SHARE button below that has been provided. Thank you!

Updates & Follows

CLICK to Follow Us On Social Media OR To Get Devotional Updates

Click Appropriately

Telegram  - Daily Online Seminars, Meetings & Resources

Instagram

Twitter

Facebook

Get E-Mail Devotional Updates

Sign up on KHC

Church Arm Info

Kindly Share With Friends

How To Know If Your Lover Really Loves You - Part 2

Continued from yesterday

2. He will woo you and wait for you
The man who truly loves you will woo you, come after you, pamper you with love and attention. He will come with flowers and with poems and all that. But that alone does not really show love.
 
How do you mean, Pastor?
 
A man can woo you for the wrong reasons. A man can even go ahead and buy you car and yet doesn't love you. He could still buy the same car for any other person who can give him what he wants from you.
 
Those rich politicians that would sleep with girls of easy virtue and part with half a million Naira, they don't really love the girls! They see them as jeru trap objects! No more!

His money buys him jeru trap from the girls, and he uses his money to control and dictate for the unfortunate girl.


 
So, wooing alone does not translate to love. Amnon was terribly in love, or so he thought. He couldn’t eat properly because he was in “love” with Tamar. But he ended up raping Tamar! That couldn't be love, because he suddenly hated her after he got what he wanted!
 
Beyond the wooing he will be willing to wait for you. He would not be insisting on jeru trap!

Wooing without waiting shows the motive of his professed love, it is all for jeru trap, not any future commitment.
 
Beware of a guy who is asking for jeru trap as soon as you start talking. His idea of love is like deep gashes of a knife in a confused soul. He has no clue.
 
Waiting shows maturity. Waiting shows commitments. Immediate gratification shows the picture of an undisciplined man. After marriage, he still wouldn't be able to wait. If you are not around, he would pounce on your sister or house-help!


 
You see, the first order of things for a man is to understand what this love is.
 
The sad things is that we have a lot of men who grew up in an environment where they didn't see love. If they never saw love, how would they understand it?
 
A boy that grows up seeing his mother abused in the hands of his father would first of all resent his dad and would promise himself that he would never do such a thing.
 
Then he gets married only to find out he has taken the abuse to another level. His father used to slap his mum, but now he would not only slap his wife but would kick and rain thunderous blows!
 
What happened? He hated this when he saw his dad doing it. How come he is entangled and trapped within the same thing he hated and despised?
 
You see, you will always grow up to replicate what you see in your parents. You always find yourself doing what you condemned your parents for doing. It is called transference of spirits. The victim ends up victimising others.
 
The only thing that can stop this lineage disorder and this generational dysfunction is God. And that takes us back to the first point.
 
Knowing God is a must for the man you will get married to! Not only that, you too have to know God.
 
This is also the solution for troubled marriages. Pray for him or her to get to know God! Knowing God and attending church services are two different things, though!
 
When a man knows God, he has just allowed one of the greatest miracle in his life which is renewal of the mind! He changes over time as he gets to know God more!
 
This is what can put a stop to such situations where the father eats a sour grape and teeth of the son is set on edge!

I will continue with this topic tomorrow. Hope you are getting blessed?
 
I pray that God will lead and guide you and be your shepherd indeed as you make decisions that has to do with marriage and family!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am led by the Spirit of God

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, teach me in the way to go and guide my feet into your plans
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

"No one who abides in Him [ who lives and remains in communion with and in obedience to Him—deliberately, knowingly, and habitually ] commits (practices) sin. No one who [ habitually ] sins has either seen or known Him [ recognized, perceived, or understood Him, or has had an experiential acquaintance with Him ]." (1Jn 3:6, AMP)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY

Read 1 Cor 13
 
READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR
2 Kings 14; 2 Chronicles 25

Partner With Us!

You can sow a seed and partner with KHC! Click on any options below.

Display Giving Options Within Nigeria

Deposit or Transfer to any of these:

a.
Guarantee Trust Bank
Account Name: Kisses and Huggs Club
Account Number: 0150088032

b. Diamond Bank
Account Name: Kisses and Huggs Club
Account Number: 0080369418

 

I will rather give with credit card. Go Here

I prefer to give recurrently; weekly or monthly, etc. Go Here

Display Credit Card/Paypal Options (From Anywhere)

You can pay from anywhere in the world using this option. Payment is Processed by 2CheckOut.   2Checkout.com Inc. (Ohio, USA) is a payment facilitator for goods and services provided by Kisses and Huggs Club.

One Time Giving - Click on Amount you want to give.

$10    $15    $20    $30   $50   $100   $120   $200   $500   $1000   $5000


Monthly Giving - Click on Amount you want to give

$10    $25    $50    $100   


More Options? Go Here

Save Pastor Dunamis' Number to access devotional links and other important info from his Whats app Status. - +234 802 350 7395. If you save the number and you cannot still see the status, please chat me up so your number can be saved as well. 

KHC Comments

Get KHC E BOOKS - Click on any below

**New!!!** KHC Devotional Classics - All year round, 365 Days, Over 1500 Pages!

**New eBook Alert!!!
Finally available as an eBook


KHC Devotional - A COMPENDIUM OF 365 DAYS OF DEVOTIONAL CLASSICS
Over 1500 Pages!!!
“Your Marital Life is about to Change for the Best!”

By Pastors Dunamis & Sophia Okunowo


PRICE - N2,500
Buy Now


Having never attended a computer school or any prior IT knowledge, Pastor Dunamis was supernaturally endowed to make a foray into the world of IT where he created a social network website with exclusive contents for singles and married couples.
 Now the daily devotionals which have endeared him to many who have been blessed across the world, comes into an e-Book format containing 365 Days of classics from the years gone by.
Navigate to any of the over 1,500 pages, date or topics so easily, with topics covering virtually every area of relationship and marriage.

Now, you can have the same words and wisdom packaged in an e-book on your hands, the same grace that has brought positive intervention to relationships and marriages on virtually every continent on earth and the same anointing to avail for you in your situation.
What you are holding in your hands is beyond a book, it is an encapsulation of the words of God for your situation that came and were penned down as fresh inspiration.
 As you read through, you will experience God Himself in your life, relationship and or marriage!
 Online readers and followers have testified of miracles and blessings that only God can do. Deliverance from all forms of sexual perversion, babies to the barren, direction in relationships and marriages, job openings, salvation of souls and so many more. You can expect all these and more as you use the devotionals!
It is perhaps the best gift you can get for your lover/spouse...all day, all year round word of God.


After using any of below payments, fill this form HERE and your E-book will be sent to your email provided within 24 hours.

1. Online Payment/Transfer On The Web - Pay Here

2. Deposit or Transfer - Bank Account Details
Guarantee Trust Bank, Kisses and Huggs Club, 0150088032 

**NEW** Concerning Boos & Baes Who Love The Lord

**New E-Book
CONCERNING BOOS AND BAES WHO LOVE THE LORD
By Pastors Dunamis & Sophia Okunowo


PRICE - N500
Buy Now


What are the romantic expectation from a bae? What are the spiritual qualifications of a boo? What should a relationship between my boo and the Lord be like? How do you know if your lover is really in love or you are really in love? What was our personal boo and bae story like? How do you meet the endless needs of a bae? What do you do when bae closes up her spirit? What do you look for in a bae? What do you look for in your boo? These are many more are found in this book!


After using any of below payments, fill this form HERE and your E-book will be sent to your email provided within 24 hours.

1. Online Payment/Transfer On The Web - Pay Here

2. Direct Deposit or Transfer -
Bank Account Details
Guarantee Trust Bank,
Kisses and Huggs Club, 0150088032

**NEW** How To Handle Delays And Overcome Delays As Singles

**New E-Book
HOW TO HANDLE DELAYS AND OVERCOME DELAYS AS SINGLES

By Pastors Dunamis & Sophia Okunowo


PRICE - N500
Buy Now


There are several people out there who are experiencing one form of delay or the other. There are singles whose issues have to do with the fact that no suitors are showing up. There are those who have suitors showing up, but never materialising into marriage. There are those who are married but are still waiting on God for the fruit of the womb. There are also people who have brought one type of delay or the other on themselves because of outright disobedience or some form of disconnection from God. But there are even those who have stayed faithful to God and yet there is delay. This books deals with what delays are in marriage, how to handle them, and how to overcome them. It gives scriptural perspective to overcoming delays and receiving the best from God.

After using any of below payments, fill this form HERE and your E-book will be sent to your email provided within 24 hours.

1. Online Payment/Transfer On The Web - Pay Here

2. Deposit or Transfer - Bank Account Details
Guarantee Trust Bank, Kisses and Huggs Club, 0150088032 

Falling In Love Series

FALLING IN LOVE SERIES
By Pastors Dunamis & Sophia Okunowo

PRICE - N500
Buy Now


Everything about love, falling in love, falling out of love, identifying true love, who to fall in love with, right and wrong reasons for falling in love, practical ways to fall in love, how to love yourself before you can be loved and much more are all found in this book!


1
. Online Payment/Transfer On The Web - Pay Here 

2. Deposit or Transfer - Bank Account Details
Guarantee Trust Bank, Kisses and Huggs Club, 0150088032

After using any of above payments, fill this form HERE and your E-book will be sent to your email provided within 24 hours.

Hooked To Sex - The Story of Lovett

HOOKED TO SEX - THE STORY OF LOVETT
By Pastors Dunamis & Sophia Okunowo

PRICE - N500
Buy Now

Lovett sat up on her bed. With her lingerie still on, and her pillow firmly hugged, she broke down in uncontrollable tears that made her whole body  convulse involuntarily. On and on, the hot tears kept coming slowly and  dismally down the rounded corners of her nose and mouth, to be finally  buried in the ever ready softness of the pillow.  In little time, the  pillow had become soaked with tears and sweats.  Her sobs were  punctuated with deep seated sighs and nods of regrets, and her outlook  was that of a person who is no longer enthusiastic about life; she seems to have lost the energy to continue living...

After using any of below payments, fill this form HERE and your E-book will be sent to your email provided within 24 hours.

1. Online Payment/Transfer On The Web - Pay Here

2. Deposit or Transfer - Bank Account Details
Guarantee Trust Bank, Kisses and Huggs Club, 0150088032

Conversations on Love, Relationships and Marriage

CONVERSATIONS ON LOVE, RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGE
By Pastors Dunamis & Sophia Okunowo

PRICE - N350
Buy Now

Conversations that leads to life between different people. These conversations succinctly communicate the love of God, loving your loved one, loving your lover without unloving God and so much more.

After using any of below payments, fill this form HERE and your E-book will be sent to your email provided within 24 hours.
`
1.
Online Payment/Transfer On The Web - Pay Here

2. Deposit or Transfer - Bank Account Details
Guarantee Trust Bank, Kisses and Huggs Club, 0150088032

Can I Be Sure? - The Story of Brenda

HOW CAN I BE SURE? - The Story of Brenda
By Pastors Dunamis & Sophia Okunowo

PRICE - N500
Buy Now

Brenda shuddered at the thought of dying. Being woken up from sleep by an unknown gun man looked too dramatic to be true. What could have warranted that? As far as she was concerned, she had not offended anybody. The man looked at her with unrepentant blood shot eyes, reeking of alcohol. All her pleas fell on deaf ears. He declared, I am sent to kill you...

After using any of below payments, fill this form HERE and your E-book will be sent to your email provided within 24 hours.

1. Online Payment/Transfer On The Web - Pay Here

2. Deposit or Transfer - Bank Account Details
Guarantee Trust Bank, Kisses and Huggs Club, 0150088032

The Christian Couple, Orgasm And Sex - Married Couples Only

Married Couples Only**
THE CHRISTIAN COUPLE, ORGASM AND SEX

By Pastors Dunamis & Sophia Okunowo


PRICE - N800
Buy Now

One of the reasons for adultery is a boring sexual life with one's spouse. While there should be no excuse for sin and compromise, this fact cannot be overlooked. It is interesting that as much as this area is crucial to every marriage, most churches are hardly discussing this for fear of where to draw the line and sometimes as a result of plain ignorance. The church is the ground and pillar of truth, the church is founded on truth, hence the truth about every aspect should be taught. This is the reason for this E-Book, to enlighten couples in these areas. How can a husband help his wife experience orgasm regularly? You will learn this and more...

After using any of above payments, fill this form HERE and your E-book will be sent to your email provided within 24 hours.

1. Online Payment/Transfer On The Web - Pay Here

2. Deposit or Transfer - Bank Account Details
Guarantee Trust Bank, Kisses and Huggs Club, 0150088032 

How To Stop Masturbation and Pornography - The Story of Bode and Mine

This e-book also contains my personal story on how I struggled with masturbation and eventually overcame as a single!

HOW TO STOP MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY  - THE STORY OF BODE AND MINE
 
By Pastors Dunamis & Sophia Okunowo


PRICE - N500
Buy Here

The sky remained bluish. The serenity and tranquility were palpable. It reminded one of the possibilities of a world devoid of vices and evil. A world bereft of whims and caprices of  the hordes of hell, full of peace and order, exclusive of the anarchy   that generally characterizes this abode of man. Despite the external peace, Bode's soul was beaten down by a great storm of anguish. The peaceful atmosphere was a complete contradiction to the waging, raging storm in his soul. He held a small paper (neatly cut out of some magazine) in his hand that has the torso of a white girl with some nudity. Sweet heat gradually spread through the core of his being. Accompanying the heat was the well timed accelerated beats of his heart because he knew he was about to do something not quite right..

After using any of above payments, fill this form HERE and your E-book will be sent to your email provided within 24 hours.

1. Online Payment/Transfer On The Web - Pay Here

2. Deposit or Transfer - Bank Account Details
Guarantee Trust Bank, Kisses and Huggs Club, 0150088032

Pastor, I Really Want To Marry - The Story of Sade

PASTOR, I REALLY WANT TO MARRY - THE STORY OF SADE 
By Pastors Dunamis & Sophia Okunowo

PRICE - N500
Buy Now

Sade stood by her window and watched her roommate, Blessing and her fiancé as they walked down the road. She honestly envied them. She felt God-forsaken and wondered why she was not yet engaged. At least, she believed she was more spiritual than Blessing. She prayed and fasted more than her, yet it seemed all the brothers had gone blind toward her. No man was looking her way. She changed her make-up every now and then, bought colognes, and often resorted to auto-suggestions; but alas, nothing would happen...

After using any of below payments, fill this form HERE and your E-book will be sent to your email provided within 24 hours.


1. Online Payment/Transfer On The Web - Pay Here

2. Deposit or Transfer - Bank Account Details
Guarantee Trust Bank, Kisses and Huggs Club, 0150088032 

About Me

Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

Last Few Days...

Tags