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How To Make Your Lover Love You More

There are always things to do that will improve whatever situations you find yourself. Some people are quick to break up relationships and run into a new one only to discover that the new one is actually worse.
Well, the reality is that nobody is perfect. However, imperfection is different from a habitual lifestyle.
Anybody can make a mistake because we are still in the days of our flesh. But it is one thing to make a mistake; it is another thing entirely to be living in sin deliberately.
If you are not living in a habitual sin and you are a child of God, there are a few things you can do to salvage you relationship and marriage. Here are a few ideas.
1. Pray for him or her
Sounds very spiritual? Maybe. But it also sounds true. Prayer changes people. Your complaints, nagging, tantrums and incessant quarrels never change people.
Your constant correction, lectures and discipline will hardly change anybody. When you are unable to change yourself, how do you think you will change the other person?
When you begin to pray for him or her, God will begin opening your eyes to your own weaknesses and show you how you can improve your relationship or marriage by working on yourself and making some adjustments.
God answers prayers. That is just the truth. Rather than resign yourself to fate and be frustrated, turn that frustration into spiritual energy by praying for him or her.
This doesn't mean you should cope with some serious character defect or a habitual sin that is out of God's will and principles. In that case, you leave the relationship.
2. Forgive each other quickly
You will offend each other. Believe me, both of you are humans, not angels. It doesn’t matter how much of tongues you speak, you will never be able to get to a place where you won’t offend each other. Why is this so? You are two different people.
But what speaking in tongues will do for you is that it will help you to forgive easily. It will help you not to get hurt over everything and anything.
You need to stay out of strife in order to hear God all the time and be able to love him or her unconditionally.
If you begin a relationship and all it has brought you are heartaches, headaches, struggles, a life is sin and compromise, and such, then you need to review the relationship and not just keep forgiving what the other person will never repent from.
3. Put the word of God first place in your life.
This is very important. Let the word of God regulate everything you do in your relationship or marriage. Remember, anybody that sins with you will sin against you eventually.
Do not violate your conscience because of love. Such carnal actions bring regrets later.
Let God’s word guide you and you will see your courtship resulting in marriage. You will see that your marriage is founded on a good foundation from where all other good things will spring.
May God bless your relationship.

I will not be given to offense


Pray that God will help you and teach you how to forgive quickly


Work at getting along with each other and with God. Otherwise you'll never get so much as a glimpse of God. (Hebrews 12:14 Message)

Forgive him or her

Psalms 3-4, 12-13, 28, 55

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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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