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How To Take Care Of Your Lover

Okay, so you are in love. Butterflies are flying in the tummy, heartbeat accelerates, and there are twinkle little stars on your face. How do you take care of each other?

 
Here are some ideas for singles and married couples.
 
1. Communication
Stay in touch. Words are powerful; use them to your advantage. As singles, don’t let your courtship season be a memory of fights, quarrels and arguments. Be matured with each other. Avoid being incommunicado.
 
Make it a rule; we must keep talking. That can be a powerful principle to live by as married couple as well. The devil feasts on silence; assumptions will persist and complicate the issue, because assumptions are the lowest form of knowledge.
 
What is a man looking for? Respect!
What is a lady looking for? Love!
If you learn to communicate this, there will be less tension!
 
Singles should however note that it is wrong to say you are showing respect while you are disobeying God’s injunctions! More aptly put, you are not showing respect to your fiancé by cooperating with him when he asks for jeru trip!
 
2. Spirituals
Oh, pastor, what has this got to do with being romantic? It’s got a lot to do! Somebody said, in order to be romantic, read the book of Romans! Well, candidly, your spiritual lives as singles or married can determine the success of your relationship or marriage. There are two elements to your spiritual life: reading of God’s word and praying to God. If you can make this regular and consistent, some order will come into your relationship.
 
As you read, you will come to understand God’s thoughts and plan for a good relationship or marriage. As you pray, God will give you ideas, resources and energy to take your relationship/marriage to the next level
 
3. Faithfulness
One way you can take care of your lover is to stay faithful! You see, life operates in a seed, time and harvest process. Whatever you wouldn’t want, don’t do it. The problem with unfaithfulness is that it is difficult to stop especially where sexual compromise has been involved.
 
As singles, don’t lie to him or her, while you are seeing some other persons. That is like self-inflicted problems, because such arrangements will never work out. You cannot eat your cake and have it.
 
4. Mentorship
That is one way as a single or married that you say, “I am committed to this relationship/marriage.” Your willingness to submit to an authority and be accountable goes a long way to show your commitment to that relationship/marriage.
 
When a man or a lady is not submitted to any authority and has no plans to be accountable to anyone, that relationship will be riddled with unresolved issues, likely to be swept under the carpet over a long period, and after a while, even the carpet will protest. There is nothing as unfortunate as having nobody to speak peace into the storms of life that will surely come!
 
How forcible are right words! but what doth your arguing reprove? (Job 6:25 KJV)
 
Let your relationship be submitted to someone that you mutually respect and whose wisdom will help you in difficult times. I have a lot of couples like this who call me from time to time over the phone and by God’s grace, there have been succor to such issues! It is just wise to stay submitted like that!
 
I pray for you this morning, that God will indeed grant you more wisdom in Jesus name!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have the wisdom of God to do the needful
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY

Pray that God will teach and instruct you in the way to go

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 

I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye (Psalms 32:8 KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Discuss the issue of mentorship
 
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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...