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How You And Your Lover Can Be Above The Crowd

The general thing today is that relationships don’t work out all the time. Marriages are heavily compromised, in fact, I have met couples before who said faithfulness is not possible, in other words, both of them are allowed to cheat.

They are both cheating and they know! What kind of marriage is that? Sure, that is not what God has in mind!
Pre-marital sex is a commonplace. In fact, some ladies regret they are still virgins and believe they are missing out!
I have had calls that went like this:
"Pastor, is something wrong with me? I am still a virgin at twenty five." And I tell them all the time, “nothing is wrong with you, you are probably surrounded by wrong friends.
In a world like this where everything good is looking like bad, and vice-versa, how do you keep your relationship above the crowd?
There are church going men who are begging their wives for a threesome or foursome, that it would prevent adultery!
Are you kidding me? Prevent adultery?
Well, welcome to the digital age where anything imaginable is attainable, both negative and positive.
If you are not careful, you can be caught in this generational and contemporaneous frenzy, a madness that emanated from the pit of hell, manifesting itself in various rebellions unto God.
Which side are you? You cannot be on both sides! You cannot be on the pulpit today leading the church in worship and you are on top of a lady you are not married to next day, and that without repentance
You cannot eat your cake and have it. God is never mocked, and never take His mercy for granted.
It is time to clean up and do it as God wants it done. Don’t bother wasting your time, energy and resources on what will bring heartache later.
Sex? You will have it till you are tired, but in marriage. It was God that put that desire in you and He wants that rapturous ecstasy in marriage, not outside of it.
Why couldn't God just press a button in me as a single and lock up the feelings and then release the button after marriage?
You are not a robot! You are a full-fledged moral entity and you must decide who you want to serve. Your decision to serve God brings pleasure to God!
It is your decision for God that will set you above the crowd. It is your life of faith, trust in God, belief that Jehovah will see you through, it is that faith that will give you a good report in your relationship and marriage and eventually set you above the crowd.
How do I know that?
For by it the elders obtained a good report. (Hebrews 11:2 KJV)
By your life of faith in God, trust in Him, your obedience to Him, service to Him, you will obtain a good report. Your relationship or marriage will be above the crowd and you will be blessed.
Here is the Message translation,
The act of faith is what distinguished our ancestors, set them above the crowd. (Hebrews 11:2 Message)
Yes, you can be above the crowd. Make up your mind. Decide for God. It is the beginning of greater days to come!
May God grant you more understanding!

I will stay above the crowd. I will not compromise


Pray that God will empower you from within


By faith, we see the world called into existence by God's word, what we see created by what we don't see. (Hebrews 11:3 Message)

Disconnect from negative influences

2 Samuel 11-12; 1 Chronicles 20

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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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