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Love Scenarios That Will Never Work

Today, I want to highlight some scenarios that will never work in relationship or marriage. Don't even bother praying about them, for nothing can be done against God’s word. The hope offered on the platform of these scenarios would be dashed and scattered.

1. When a married man gives you hope of marriage
No matter what that married man tells you, it is a lie. He is first and foremost committed to his wife at home. He may be having some temporary skirmishes with his wife, he has no fear of God, so he decides to seek sex outside his matrimonial home. He will tell you all kinds of lies and give you all you want if he has the means in other to keep you.
The reality is that for how long as a lady will you live that kind of life? For how long will you be deceived that he would send his wife away and marry you? And if in the event that happens, do you know that the same thing will happen to you? He will find another girl down the line and the same script will be executed. An unfaithful man will keep being unfaithful. It is a false hope that is sure to be dashed.

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2. When a guy dating several girls give you hope you are the main person
I always say that this is an affliction you should never subject yourself to. Usually, it is a low self esteem situation that makes a lady go through this kind of treatment where you know you are not the only “contender” for the man, as if it is WWW Raw! If a man cannot focus on you now, in marriage, it will be a continuation of the existing symptoms. The hope can be dashed anytime, because the guy already told you that you are not the only person he is dining with.
3. When a married woman gives you hope and money in exchange for sexual gratification
A lady lives by offering her body and servicing rich men in exchange of lavish lifestyles, tickets and other benefits. It also happens conversely, a guy ekes out a living by sleeping with rich women. The lady thinks she is wise, the guy thinks he is smart and business savvy, but at the end, he would know how foolish he has been. It is usually difficult to get out of that mode, because his expensive lifestyle must be maintained, and her riches keeps the guy in perpetual bondage, more like a sex slave!
But I think losing one’s soul is not worth all the luxury it offers, for it will not last. One day, the hope will be dashed, because a mortal will never take the place of Jehovah Jireh in your life.
4. When you offer your body to get and keep a job/contracts
Your body is never designed at a business tool, as a transaction commodity, and as a weapon to secure what you need. Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit where God resides. Since what starts a thing will usually sustain it, you will need to live in lies and deception all through your life, with your relationship with God at risk because of some job or contract. The reality remains that you will give account one day how you spent your life. What will you say?
5. When your courtship is riddled with constant, unrepentant sex
God says, “No” pre-marital sex. Two professed children of God in courtship decide to say “Yes” The same thing was what Adam and Eve did. They lost the glory of God, and their actions of compromise affected generations unborn. God is never mocked. The greatest decision you can ever take in your courtship is to decide to live right and stay away from compromise. You need that foundation for a successful marriage.
The beauty about it all, is that you are not condemned, no matter how far you think you have gone. You can start over in God, starting from today. You don’t have to resign to fate. You don't have to give up on those dreams you used to have as a child. God can give you a new beginning. God can still clean you up and use you mightily. All it takes is a decision this morning. And you know what, if you will decide now, there is strength for you to make that change.
The eagle in you will fly again. That adultery must stop. That sex must stop. That office compromise must stop. That pornography and masturbation must be done away with. That toy in your closet must be thrown away. That unhealthy tendency for same sex must be confronted and laid on the table before God.
Let God rewrite your history. Decide today. Come and taste a hope that will never be dashed. Christ in you the hope of glory!
"To whom God would make known what is the riches of the glory of this mystery among the Gentiles; which is Christ in you, the hope of glory:" (Colossians 1:27, KJV)

I am a child of God. I live without compromise


Lord, help me to make amends in necessary areas in Jesus name


God wanted his people throughout the world to know the glorious riches of this mystery-which is Christ living in you, giving you the hope of glory." (Colossians 1:27, GW)

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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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