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Practical Ways To Stop Sexual Compromise

In many years of counseling single and married couples, never has there been any problem or issue as intense as sexual sins.

 
Almost akin to a mountain, it stands tall in the life of any one who has dabbled into sexual sins. The person becomes completely intertwined and entangled, like an ant caught in a giant spider’s web!
 
In the early years of KHC, I was as frustrated as the ones I was counseling when I see that most of these people go back into their vomit, even after counseling sessions and prayers.
 
Both the counselor and the counselees were at a loss on what to do. Until God opened my eyes to see that Jeru trip is spiritual!
 
Then God engraced me to be able to deal with the strongman of perversion and deception which is largely behind most sexual compromise including homosexuality! Then I saw people set free supernaturally!
 
I have seen people weep in repentance only to go back into sexual sins. I have had to counsel pastors who just preached about sexual compromise only to find them locked up in sexual embrace afterwards!
 
I have seen people who fasted forty days to deal with sexual sins only to be back in bed with another man on the fortieth day!
 
Can there be a way out? Yes!
 
Did Jesus give us a way out? Yes!
 
1. You see, the fist thing you need to realize is that the scripture says emphatically:
 
For sin shall not have dominion over you: for ye are not under the law, but under grace. (Romans 6:14 KJV)
 
Yes, no matter your experiences, the scripture shall not be broken. Jesus already dealt with the sin issue. The power of iniquity is broken! That was a major reason Jesus Christ died for you and I.
 
In the Old Testament, our sins were atoned for. It means they were kind of covered by the blood of goats!
 
In the New Testament, the blood of Jesus, because of its superiority and holiness, did not just cover our sins; it wiped it away with no trace of remembrance!
 
In God, when you embrace redemption, you were reconfigured back to who you were before you ever sinned! As much as that sounds difficult to grasp, that is what happened. You see, the things of God cannot be grasped with our natural understanding!
 
However, I must sound a warning to the hyper-grace folks. Grace is not meant to keep you safe while you relish in your indulgences and undisciplined sexual life. Nay, it is meant to give you power over sexual sins!
 
Beware of anybody who says you can sleep around and still be anointed. There is a clear difference between the Holy Spirit operations of familiar spirits.
 
You can fall into sin and ask for forgiveness and God will forgive you. But a child of God is not supposed to live habitually in sexual sins!
 
The wages sin is still death, and it won't change!
 
The Message translation says:
 
Rom 6:23 (MSG)  
Work hard for sin your whole life and your pension is death. But God's gift is real life, eternal life, delivered by Jesus, our Master.
 
2. The second thing you need after this understanding is to go to God and ask Him to forgive you of all misdeeds and mistakes. And you know what? He will forgive you! When He forgives you, He will also forget!
 
Listen to me dear, God does not condemn you! Do you remember what He told that woman caught in adultery, whose destiny would have been truncated by stoning, Jesus Christ told her, I do not condemn you, BUT, go and sin no more!
 
The same way, rather than stone the ones caught today, we are to restore them because that is why Jesus died for them!
 
God is not in the business of stoning people, He is the business of lifting people up with a strict warning, "Go and sin no more!
 
You also need to understand that not a few are caught in sexual compromise because they are promiscuous, but like Mephibosheth, they were dropped before they reached the age of accountability!
 
Some of them were abused by some big cousins, raped by some unsuspecting relatives, fingered by some lesson teachers, innocence stolen by some big brothers and such! In hiding these for many years and not being able to open up, that which they were a victim of; found them becoming another victim or even predators!
 
I come in the name of the Lord this morning that you don’t have to be under the weak and beggarly elements, under demonic powers again in your sexuality! You don’t have to succumb to every cry of the flesh. You can master your body by the Help of the Holy Spirit and make your destiny a significant one!
 
As we continue our forty days fast, cry to the Lord. He will help you!
 
Go to God and ask for help. Talk to your father, every help you need can be found in Him. Refuse to cooperate with the devil.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
Sin shall not have dominion over me!
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY

Pray and ask God to cleanse you of all sins and give you the grace to forgive all that hurt you many years ago

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 

Do good, O Lord, unto those that be good, and to them that are upright in their hearts. (Psalms 125:4 KJV)


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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...