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Speaking Your Wife's Language Part 2

We started yesterday talking about how important it is for you to speak your wife's language. I also stated that language here means your wife's love language.
 
If you didn't read yesterday's post, I will implore you to go ahead and read it.
 
There are five basic love languages which are:
 
1, Words of affirmation
2. Quality time and Attention
3. Service
4. Gifts
5. Physical Touch 
 
We have looked at Words of affirmation. Let's continue from where I stopped yesterday.
 
2. Quality time and Attention
 
It is good to know that basically it is the responsibility of the husband to learn his wife's love language. It is God's order in marriage that the husband love his wife while the wife respects and honors her husband.
 
It is not a case of "my wife is too demanding, she always wants me to speak her love language while she doesn't attempt to speak mine."
 
Husbands must concentrate on loving your wife.
 
Quality time as it suggests means spending quality time with her. Here, quality time could mean different things to different women. To some, it could mean spending time with her when she is in the kitchen cooking, it could mean going on vacation together, having weekend trips, going to the movies, shopping, just spend time with her.
 
It means you are spending time and giving her attention. You let her know your plans, your where about, investments, meetings, friends and every thing. You don't keep secrets.
 
Your wife may be crying for your attention and you are busy working yourself out to stupor trying to provide for the family. She will not sense your love until you slow down and spend some time with her.
 
If you are a busy husband, schedule time consciously to be together. We had to plan that into our marriage. Call it me and you time. Let nothing interrupt this time. You may need to switch off your phone or a get away for two.
 
It doesn't have to be expensive or far. If the children are still young, find a friend's place you can keep them for a few hours to just go. Your wife will appreciate you more for your effort.
 
Many quarrels go on in marriage because we don't know where to focus our resources and energy on. Once you discover your wife's love language, go ahead and start speaking it and improve on speaking it.
 
Your wife maybe throwing tantrums just because she doesn't feel your love. She feels your love when you speak her love language. She will adore you and respect you the moment she can sense your love.
 
Try and pay attention to her and seek to find out her love language. What does your wife complain about all the time? It is a clue to what her love language is. You may have to try different things before you finally discover which one it is.
 
God bless your marriage

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have wisdom for my marriage

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, open the eyes of my understanding
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

"In the same way you married men should live considerately with [ your wives ], with an intelligent recognition [ of the marriage relation ], honoring the woman as [ physically ] the weaker, but [ realizing that you ] are joint heirs of the grace (God's unmerited favor) of life, in order that your prayers may not be hindered and cut off. [ Otherwise you cannot pray effectively. ]" (1Pe 3:7, AMP)
 
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY

Find out what her love language is 
 
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