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The Only Problem I Had With My Beautiful Damsel


I was on 200 miles per hour!
 
Yes, I was fast. And I am still fast, though not as before.
 
I did everything quickly. I took actions quickly. And that comes with Pros and Cons.
 
Though my demeanor is calm, I am a full-blooded choleric within.
 
So I jokingly say my blood was running on 200 miles per hour.
 
Then, I met this babe, this damsel, angelic, beautiful, so beautiful.
 
Just one problem.
 
She is slow.
 
She has a calm demeanor as myself too, hers is even more calm.
 
I am calm without and fast within.
 
She is calm without and calm within, double calm.
 
So i jokingly say her blood is 15 miles per hour.
 
Pentium 1 kind of things!
 
What shall we say to these things?
 
So in some over twenty years ago when we met, i concluded this is a big problem.
 
How can somebody be gentle and slow like this?
 
When I complain, she would look at me slowly.
 
Lobatan!
 
I actually though it was a problem.
 
I was constantly complaining and ranting, in my very fast self.
 
Nothing changed.
 
Then I bumped on Tim and Beverly La-Hayes' books
 
And I was delivered.
 
Our "bloods" were never meant to "speed" on same level.
 
So, I basically accepted this slowness.
 
Thank God I did.
 
Fast forward nineteen years after marriage, this "slowness" has saved me from a lot of errors that would have emerged from my fast disposition.
 
Then I began to see the purpose of God and why He made it so that opposites will attract.
 
Today, I am a less fast and she is less slow. A balance was struck.
 
Hey, young lover so much in love, never try to change your lover.
 
The first issue is that he or she is never going to change.
 
The temperamental tendencies are there to stay for life, only adjustments at being Spirit filled and thus maximizing your strengths and minimizing your weaknesses.
 
At the end of the day, this problem was never a problem. It was a great advantage.
 
God knows all things.
 
Trust Him.
 
It may look suicidal initially, but God's way is always the best at the long haul.
 
Indomie is fast in preparation, pounded yam is slower.
 
But you sure have an idea of the one that will fill you, that you will enjoy and that will last.
 
God is a pounded yam God!
 
On the long haul, you will see that His purpose is the best.
 
Stay with Him. Trust Him. Your brain cannot be trusted. You should have realized that by now.
 
May God bless your relationship.
 
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have understanding
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father, open the eyes of my understanding
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
1Pe 4:8 (AMPC)  
Above all things have intense and unfailing love for one another, for love covers a multitude of sins [forgives and disregards the offenses of others].
 
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Read a book on temperament
 
READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR
Ezekiel 37-39

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Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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