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The Spirituality of Sex And Sexuality 



Sade and Tony have been engaged for only three months. But in the short time they were together, they could not remember as many times as they have had sex. They practically used it to greet each other anytime they get to see.

 
But when they quarreled after three months, they parted their ways and went differently.


 
Somehow they kept thinking of each other. They had moved on differently and each of them even have new relationships but they kept on thinking of each other.


 
What happened to them?


 
The reality is that they have what is called “soul tie!”
 


This is what sex does! How does this happen?
 


In marriage, sex brings a bonding between the couple, because that is one of the purposes of sex. It cements the couple and joins them together at the highest possible level. Their souls become knitted together. They become one. They are glued together, and God says nobody should put asunder.

 
But in sex outside marriage, there is also a bonding. It is just that it is another kind of bonding. It is an illegal bonding that gives access to operation of demonic entities in one’s life. It called soul ties.


 
This is what the scripture is talking about here:

"Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh." (1Co 6:15-16, KJV)
 
Can you see that?
 


In sex before marriage, the two people also illegally become one body! They are not married, but there is an illegal bonding that gives access to legal operations of demonic activities because of disobedience.


 
Message Translation puts it this way:
"There's more to sex than mere skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As written in Scripture, "The two become one."" (1Co 6:16, MSG)
 
So we see that this is spiritual. As a matter of fact, when you get involved in sex with someone, you are actually having sex with everybody that person has had sex with! It is not uncommon to see a person suddenly stealing after having sex with someone that steals!
 
There is nothing like causal sex. Nothing is casual about it, it is spiritual. There is nothing like one night stand. One night stand can lead to eternity of woes and damnation.
 


There is nothing like a quickie outside marriage. One quickie, and one’s destiny can be quickly set back by five years or more!


 
This is just the reality!


 
You see, you need to understand that as a child of God, the devil is trying to trip you. And a lot of people have been tripped. Yes, you can ask for forgiveness and God will forgive you and cleanse you but when you keep getting careless and you make this a habitual lifestyle, then you are cooperating with the devil for your destruction.

It is as truthful as that.
 
So, what do you do?
 


Learn to put your body under. Your body ought not to dictate to you. Rather, you are to allow your spirit to gain ascendancy over your body! It is very possible to stay off a sinful lifestyle because the scripture is emphatic when it said, “Sin shall not have dominion over you.” 


 
How do you break soul ties from past sexual mistakes?


1. Ask God to forgive you of the mistake
2. Repent and make up your mind not to do it again.

3. Fast and pray and ask God to severe every bonding and soul ties
4. Disconnect form such a person. Stop all the calls, chats and pings.

5. Psalm 23 says, “He restoreth my soul!” Ask God to restore your soul 

6. Stop living in sin. Jesus told that woman, “Go and sin no more!”

7. Patiently wait for the salvation of God in your relationship. Don't be hasty. Cooperate with God’s plan.
8. Believe that God has a plan for you and that the plan will become a reality.
9. Keep reading and studying God’s word. Your mind will be renewed over time. For example, if you can follow this devotional consistently, your mind will be renewed in this area and you will get to know a lot of things and be prepared for marriage. A lot of people have testified to that.


 
I pray for you this morning that God will grant you more understanding. 


 
Right now, I exercise my authority as God’s servant, I break every form of soul ties that may exist in Jesus name. I destroy every plan of hell over your destiny, I declare you free from consequences of past mistakes and I ask in the name of Jesus and by the power of the Holy Spirit that your soul be restored now to God’s desire for you as an individual and in your relationship in Jesus name!


CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am free because whosoever the son of man shall set free is free indeed!

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
I destroy and severe every form of soul ties in Jesus name
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

"Or do you not know and realize that when a man joins himself to a prostitute, he becomes one body with her? The two, it is written, shall become one flesh. [ Gen 2:24 ] But the person who is united to the Lord becomes one spirit with Him." (1Co 6:16-17, AMP)
 
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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...