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Three Things Your Wife Will Find Irresistible

There is this idea that women are complex and very difficult to please. This may appear to be true because of the complexity in her make up. Women are emotional beings and emotions are usually unstable. That's why a woman can cry when she is happy, sad, confused or overwhelmed. A man may be at a cross road to know the reason for her tears at different occasions. Is she happy, sad or overwhelmed? At one time a lady may be excited only for her moods to change almost immediately for a reason she may not be able to pinpoint.

Most husbands face the dilemma of not knowing exactly what to do to make their wives know they love and appreciate them. They complain they don't know exactly how to please their wives.
These three things will help your relationship with your wife as you get to understand and flow with her better. Remember, the Bible says that husbands are to dwell with their wives with understanding so that their prayers may not be hindered. Her complexity is not a means of ignoring her but an opportunity of getting to know and adapt to her better. Every lady wants to be loved, appreciated and valued for who she is, not to be fixed into what you feel she should be. Allow the lady in your life be herself, let her blossom and flourish.
1. Kind words
Every lady, whether young or old will any day find kind words irresistible. Ladies are very responsive to words basically because they are emotional.
Words move ladies while guys are moved by sight. Way back when God made the woman, her first encounter was with words. She was spoken to. Words of appreciation and value were the first words spoken to her.
Remember the source of a thing is the sustenance thereof.
Don't be harsh or unkind in your words to your wife. You can pass whatever message across nicely. Never hurt a lady with your words. Your words are meant to be to her source of strength and encouragement.
2. Time and attention
Give a woman time and attention and you have won her. When you do this, you are depositing into her emotional bank where she can draw from later when she is emotionally down.
Time and attention tells a lady I care about you, I want to be with you, I consider you interesting enough to share my time with. It tells her, I want to get to know and understand you, I am not in a hurry, neither am I distracted and I enjoy your presence. All these means to her that you value and appreciate her. You cannot substitute time and attention with anything. It's either you give her time and attention or you give her time and attention.
3. Pray for her
This is one spiritual exercise you will forever be grateful you do. Men may not be given to much of prayers as women are but a word of prophecy daily over your wife will cover her spiritually. You will be fulfilling your role over her as her spiritual covering and head. You are supposed to wash your wife by the washing of God's word. Speak to her spirit, make confessions over her.
When you do this, you have a satisfied wife, who will never trade you for silver or gold. She will appreciate and value your impact in her live. She will in turn honour, respect and value your place in her life. She will treat you like the king you are and esteem you highly as her head.
She will be established in your home and do all in her power to surround and cover for your weaknesses. She will stand to defend and speak highly of you everywhere.
These three things are worth sowing into the life of your fiancé or wife, there are great dividends derivable from them. God bless you men as you bring out the best in your and wives.

I have the wisdom of God in my marriage


Lord, give me divine direction


"The same goes for you husbands: Be good husbands to your wives. Honor them, delight in them. As women they lack some of your advantages. But in the new life of God's grace, you're equals. Treat your wives, then, as equals so your prayers don't run aground."  (1Pe 3:7, MSG)

Settle every quarrel and stay out of strife

2 Chronicles 1; Psalm 72

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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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