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When Your Spouse Is Impossible, What Do You Do?

There are some demands that are unrealistic. Every one comes into marriage wanting some of these unrealistic demands to be fed, either as a husband or as a wife.
It is this unrealistic demands that often make marriage difficult and our spouses difficult to live with. If we continue making such demands, and insisting they have to be met, the marriage will not work. In marriage, you have to be willing to compromise, you move a little to the left and a little to the right. Both the husband and the wife should be willing and ready to compromise.
These unrealistic dreams or desire leave us hurt. Where as accepting realistic desires leaves both husband and wife happy and living their lives.
I have known couples who complain that their spouse is impossible. They don't know what they want. They make demands of them that are out of these world. Some examples of the impossible expectations are:
1. Expecting your spouse to be perfect.
2. Expecting your spouse to make all things perfect
3. Expecting your spouse to be just like you
4. Expecting your spouse to know what is wrong with you
5. Expecting your spouse to understand you perfectly well
6. Expecting your spouse not to make a mistake.
7. Expecting your spouse to do the right things every time and always.
8. Demanding unconditional love from your spouse always
9. Expecting your spouse to be an angel without flaws
10. Expecting your spouse to know the solutions to all your problems
These are all very unrealistic demands. You expect your spouse to fit into a particular mold you have created, not considering their individuality. Every couple has a unique destiny and thus express themselves based on the uniqueness of their destiny and purpose.
What do you do when your spouse is feeding on some of these unrealistic thoughts?
Don't fight or let it be a point of conflict or quarrel or argument. Try and resolve this amicably. If it is the wife that has these unrealistic expectations, its easier.
The Bible says in:
Eph 5:25-26
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word.
That husbands should love the wife and should sanctify her and cleanse her by the washing of the water by the word. That means the husband should teach her to become whatever he wants her to become.
Communicate to her in a way she understands that her expectations are unrealistic.
Try and see from her point of view and understand with her.
Meet her expectation only to the point where it is possible.
Pray for her.
God bless your marriage.
Confession of the day
I will not entertain unrealistic expectations.
Prayer of the day
Lord, help me not to feed my unrealistic expectations
Thoughts of the day
Eph 5:25-26 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word.
Action plans for the day
Be real and let go of unrealistic expectations
Isaiah 49-53
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