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Why Is My Fiancee Always Unhappy And Upset?

Why is she always moody? Why is she happy this moment and then the next she is depressed? Why does she like to buy things? I can go on and on and there are so many questions

With nearly two decades of speaking, teaching and writing on relationships and marriages, I have some ideas that can help you when it comes to how women think.
Hundreds of young ladies, middle aged ladies and older ladies have spoken to me in counseling scenarios. Most of them would weep profusely as they narrate their ordeals.
When guys call me, they are usually trying to find out how to choose a good lady, but when ladies call me, they are trying to get healed and get a broken heart mended.
So, this morning, I want to take you by the hand and let’s go on an excursion into the mind of a lady.
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1. She is deeply emotional
Now, that is just plain difficult for guys to understand because again, you are trying to process emotionalism with logic. A lady is emotional, but a man is logical.
What this means is that a guy and a lady will never think the same way, will never see things the same way and will never say it the same way. They are thinking from different sides of the brain.
In courtship scenarios, this following type of conversation can ensue:
Guy: (Calls his fiancée who lives in another state) Hey, Baby, how are you doing?
Lady: (Answers unhappily) I am fine
Guy: What’s wrong? You don’t sound good
Lady: Are you just noticing?
Guy: But I just called now! There you go again. What is wrong this time?
Lady: Nothing
Guy: How can you say “nothing?”
Lady: Nothing
Guy: Ok, I will call you later
Lady: So, you want to hang up the phone?
Guy: But you said there is nothing?
Lady: So because I said there is nothing, you think there is nothing?
Guy: Lord, help me!
Lady: I have always known you don’t love me!
Guy: Baby, I love you
Lady: If you love me, you would have called me yesterday
Guy: But I told you that I would be in class throughout yesterday
Lady: Whatever happened to SMS and Whatsapp?
Guy: I told you my phone would be with a repairer
Lady” Why can’t you borrow a phone? Am I not important to you?
Guy: Oh God. You just feel like picking a quarrel. So that’s the issue?
Lady: Yes
Guy: Ok, I am sorry
Lady: You are always sorry. Every time, you are sorry.
Guy: What do you want from me? So what do you want now?
Lady: Nothing
And they can go and on without any meaningful conclusion.
The first thing I will like you to know this morning is that guys and ladies think differently. So, in a relationship, you don't set out to win an argument, you simply try to understand each other.
Something that is insignificant to you can be a passionate issue for her and you need to deal with her with a lot of understanding.
She is not logical, which sometimes make her use too many words, but you need to know that she is intuitive.

I will continue from here tomorrow.

I will live with understanding


Lord, teach me by your Holy Spirit in my areas of ignorance


"In the same way you married men should live considerately with [ your wives ], with an intelligent recognition [ of the marriage relation ], honoring the woman as [ physically ] the weaker, but [ realizing that you ] are joint heirs of the grace (God's unmerited favor) of life, in order that your prayers may not be hindered and cut off. [ Otherwise you cannot pray effectively. ]" (1Pe 3:7, AMP)
Settle all quarrels

Proverbs 4 - 6

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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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