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You Are Not His Baby Mama, You Are His Wife!

I Am Still Having A Heart To Heart Talk With Wives 

I started writing to wives yesterday.
Today, I am going to write about one more thing. 

And it is very simple, though most often flouted.
2. Accept Your Husband
Yes, you are already married. But marriage goes beyond just saying”I am his wife” or “I am married”
There is a very cogent need to fully accept him as your husband and your head because you are the crown sitting o that head!
Now, read the next statement carefully:
If you don’t accept your husband as your head, you will tamper with God’s blessings over your life!

Accepting him as your head goes beyond just bearing his name. His sisters also bear his name.
Accepting him as your head goes beyond bearing children for him, baby mamas do that!

You are not his baby mama! You are his wife, his helper-meet!
Accepting him as your head is cooperating with the authority God has set up in homes and allowing His blessings in your life because it would flow though that structure.

It is amazing how many wives detest their husbands in their hearts, and wonder why a lot of things are not working.
It is amazing how many wives prefer other men and wish they had married that other one and wonder why God seems slow in answering their prayers.

It is amazing how many wives “deal” with their husbands by refusing sex and then wonder why things are not working!

As a wife, you have so much strength, capacity and enablement to advance your husband or ground him!
It is there in the scripture.
Okay, I will give just one verse.

Pro 12:4 (MSG)  

A hearty wife invigorates her husband, but a frigid woman is cancer in the bones.
Think deeply about that.
Be a hearty wife. Be cheerful. Play with him. Pray for him. Love him deeply. Care for him. Adore him. Focus on him.
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Cancer in the bones will immobilize. Family’s finances would be affected.
Dear wife, accept your husband and cooperate with him!

KJV puts it this way:

Pro 12:4 (KJV)  

A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.
A wife is the expression of his husband’s majesty.
1Co 11:7 (AMPC+)  

For a man ought not to wear anything on his head [in church], for he is the image and [reflected] glory of God [N1his function of government reflects the majesty of the divine Rule]; but woman is [the expression of] man's glory (majesty, preeminence).
You are married. So decide to work together. Focus on him. Synergise. Be a helper. Deep down from your heart.
He will love you and if he tries to cheat on you or treat you anyhow after accepting him with all your heart, God Himself will step in.

This is what the Bible suggests that even if he is an unbeliever, there is possibility you can win him over to Christ with your attitude and maturity.

1Pe 3:1 (CEV)  

If you are a wife, you must put your husband first. Even if he opposes our message, you will win him over by what you do. No one else will have to say anything to him,

If the scripture suggests you do this with an unbeliever husband you got married to maybe in ignorance or before you got born again yourself, what then do you think God expects from you as a wife in dealing with your husband who is a child of God?

If you are not fully with your husband, if you are secretly admiring somebody else, if you are constantly wishing you had married somebody else, if you are constantly playing affair games in your mind, it will show in your attitude, body language, utterances and dispositions and your husband will know in his heart that you are not with him, and much more God will know.

This is not a good place to be. 

For whatever your husband has done,, I know men can be naughty and some of them can even be “wicked;’ forgive and move on!

Accept Him and let God’s blessings flow into your home endlessly.
Don’t limit your prayer and impede your new greatness by a disconnected heart.
It is so sad that so many children of God fast and pray endlessly and never accept their spouse in their hearts. Things would not work that way!
You are joined together in marriage, bound together “as with a glue”
So stop playing with disconnection games,. It will only bring marital injuries.
I pray that God will give more understanding.
Your marriage is blessed.

I love you BIG!
My marriage is blessed of God
Lord, open my eyes to see what I need to see!
Eph 4:23 (MSG)  
a life renewed from the inside
Pray in the Spirit
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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...