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Your Husband Needs Your Acceptance

Women are influence-rs by nature. Somewhere at the back of their mind they believe they can change their husbands. They just believe they can say a magic word and voila, their husbands change from certain behaviours they consider unacceptable by them.
There is nothing far from the truth more than this. Your husband is a full grown man and naturally he will want to resist any form of force.
Especially when it looks like your are trying to make him submit. Men are egotistical in nature.
Anything that touches their leadership position will be met with great resistance.
So what does a wife do?
She means well and does not want her husband to remain the same way she met him. She wants to change him.
First know that the way up is down. She has to humble herself and enjoy and accept him. Accept him for who and what he is. His flaws included. I know this will not be easy.
Stop complaining and nagging about everything he does. Let him be free to be who he is in your presence. Stop making him walk as though he is on egg shells in your presence.
Accept his flaws. Then gradually encourage him to change. Even bible admonishes that wives will win their husbands over without a word but with their chaste and humble character.
Always look for an opportune time to make your request. Request that you will appreciate if he makes some changes and let him know that you are not putting him under pressure to change.
You can even take the route of praising him for his good part. Just chunk it in that he may need to change certain habits. And then give him some time. This is probably something he has been doing for the past twenty years or more.
Don't just fly off the handle because he keeps on doing what you said you don't like. He will change, just give him more time. God might be working on your own patience too.
You may also want to talk to God about it. Which is very effective. Remember, no man has the power to change another. It is solely the work of the Holy Spirit. Trust the Spirit of God to minister to him to change.
Don't put up a fight, enter into strife or become manipulative because your husband is not changing. Be a happy wife and be happy despite him.
God bless your marriage

I love and accept my husband


Lord help me to accept my husband and be merciful to his flaws


Pro 5:21 (KJV)  For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD, and he pondereth all his goings.

Pray in the Spirit 

2 Samuel 10; 1 Chronicles 19; Psalm 20

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