Marriage has a purpose. It is meant to enhance your life, not worsen it. Don't get married if you do not understand the purpose of it. Don't get married if you are not submitted to God. That is the first relationship you need to cultivate and build and if you don't have that, forget marriage. Ladies, never marry a man without a purpose and a vision. Never marry a man that does not work. Never marry a man that does not understand himself and the purpose for living.