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It is quite heart-breaking and i understand how you feel. This is the reason why it is risky to invest hugely in someone who is not yet your spouse especially if they don't have the fear of God. I will advise you not to soil your hands with blood or evil because of money which is transient, just ask God for strength to move on and God will give you the best to wipe your tears away. Going further to force her to stay or inviting pastors, elders, friends etc to talk to her is even of no use since she already started having that mindset and cheating already. Being with her is only going to end in utter regret, so leave her to God and embrace Him to mend your breaking heart.