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Your mother has simply given her opinion, you are left to make your decision.
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your path."
Brother, where is the place of God in your choice? Have you sought His face at all???
Let God direct you on this relationship. If God says yes, then do not worry about your mother, she will align.