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I am sorry to say... You have kept yourself waiting for 7 years, time to do some serious soul searching
1. Why do you love him?
2. Why did he cheat?
3. What are his reasons for postponing?
One valid truth about guys... If they are not ready to settle down, only a miracle can change their mindset.
You know what you must do, so get it done already. 7yrs is a long time, but its not long enough to ruin your future for.
Be guided.
It's bad enough for him to have wasted your precious time for 7 years but cheating on you twice is even worse. Am sorry to say but your "Man" is a perfect example of a time waster. What has been his excuse for postponing the marriage all these time?
You really want to know what to do? BREAK THE RELATIONSHIP AND MOVE ON.
My dear, the only solution I think is that you should MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. If he could not make a decision within 7years, I can assure you that he will never take a decision to marry you seven years after now. Why delay yourself? Why waste your youthful time? Oh dear, you've got so many great dreams you could have realized within these 7years.
I don't even think you should get married to him. Peradventure he marries you, he might at the long run claim that you force him into the marriage or not stop cheating. Just forget about him (though, this might not be easy), but with the help of the Holy Spirit, you can and move on with your precious life.