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Bro, take it easy. I totally understand your fears. However, I think she just needs teaching and prayers.
Yes, you are not to control her life, but is God controlling her life??? Do you both have same vision and purpose?
Be patient with her, teach her and pray for her. Above all, be sure, she is God's choice for you!!!