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The bottom line is to have mentors whom we are accountable to. They should be people we can look up to as models and as counsellors in times of trouble.
So be it pastors or parents, it doesnt matter. For this lady, if her parents are truly God-fearing and loving, then she can have them as mentors and you have your pastor as your mentor, no issues here.