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I got pregnant by mistake for another member of the church who is being considered for pastorate. He said I should save him by not telling the Pastor and that we should consider abortion. I feel used and I feel I shoud tell the pastor about it, who will definitely deal with him or with us. I still love him. Should I tell Pastor about it?
I think you should tell the pastor by mistake but NEVER give in to the abortion plan by mistake. The mistake of getting pregnant is enough, face the punishment you have to face now and prevent yourself from further mistakes. I pray God sees you through and grant you the courage to do the right thing.
my dear it is better for you to tell your Pastor so that you both can face the punishment. Dont try to abort at all that is not the solution. Please just go and meet your Pastor and ask God for mercy first cos the bible he that covereth his sin shall not prosper, but whoso confesseth and forsaken them shall have mercy.
ok,even as we are not supposed to judge anyone i have to just tell you the blatant truth"you did not get pregnant by mistake". you both thought about sex first in your hearts,festered your minds on it. planned to have sex,to the point of even having sex more than once and without a condom. my dear i am an optimistic realist,has you both planned it and executed it together both of you will handle the consequences(that is after you have asked God for forgiveness of sin). so plan very well how you will reveal it to both parents and then tell your pastor,from then on you will have help in doing the proper thing. if you are working then get ready to have a baby,if a student get ready to miss school. your babys daddy too should get ready too as he will soon have responsibility with his pastoral calling. thats the reality,but you will also need to start thinking of the future and how you plan to handle it. it is time to really ask God for your purposein life too,as you need divine direction now more than ever
My dear, kindly go and inform the pastor and your parents. Don't consider abortion.
This actually happened to a friend of mine. Presently, both she (a worker in the church) and the guy (HoD in a church unit) both planned to abort but it was unsuccessful. At the end, the pastor got to know and suspended both of them.
Right now, the man is not even playing his fatherly role again to his own son and not even considering marrying the lady. He claimed the lady hypnotised him.
Though, the consequences might fall more on you, because my friend is not married to him due to the fact that the lady exposed the whole thing but its better you save your life. If not, the guy will keep on doing it to other ladies. Help the other innocent ladies who might want to fall victim of the same person.