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Dear Pastor and KHCites, I need your advice. The very first day my wife brought in a househelp. I knew I would mess up with her. She is not as beautiful as my wife, but she is respectful with a smile always and that is what my wife doesnt have.
Everyday, I battle in my thought with lust towards this girl and she kept smiling. If we are alone for too long, I dont know what will happen.
I told my wife that we should let her go for now because I don't like her, (I just can't say the truth because I am a deacon) she refused. She doesnt seem to know what is going on. She is so naive.
How can I handle this? I am scared.
Please, tell your wife everything because the way a woman thinks is different from the way you think. If you keep telling her that 'you don't like her', she might be thinking that with time, you will. Let her know exactly what is going on in your mind, this is not the issue of being a deacon or not. Because you are a deacon doesn't mean, you don't have blood in your veins.
Use your authority as a husband to send the maid away. Explain to your wife its for security reasons, chip it in that she is a little seductive. Try and work on yourself & your thots (lustful thots) because you cant keep sending all maids away. Be sexually satisfied by your wife.