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Most of us do a lot of harmful things to the people we are supposed to love. Our intentions may be right or sincere but our ignorance makes them dangerous. Imagine a wife who wants to keep her husband to herself but goes about it in a manipulative way.
It is so important to get our desires, ideas, intentions and emotions straightened out by the word of God. God's word becomes the authentic judge of all our intentions.
Have you not heard of ladies or guys who feel right about securing their relationship by sleeping together. They feel it's the best and most logical decision to take. Logic and emotion are different from God's wisdom, and you can not substitute your logic or emotions for Gods wisdom. In fact, if you are not careful, the devil will interfere with your thoughts and give you suggestions that are aimed at fulfilling the devil's mandate to kill, steal and destroy.
Remember the story in the bible of the daughters of Lot? Gen19:31-35. Lot and his daughters were the only survivals from the destructions of 2 whole cities - Sodom and Gomorrah. These 2 ladies grew up in the midst of perverse people. Eventually, they decided to have their own father drunk with wine so he could lie with them and have children by him. Guess their dumbest reason! 'Our father is getting old and there is no man left in the country by whom we can get pregnant'. They were surely so deceived by the devil.
In the same way, don't go about the right things you desire in your relationships the wrong way. It is usually very costly. Sex will not make your fiancé love you more. Lies, deception and manipulation will not make you smarter in the relationship.
I was almost like, 'God, why can't you stop these silly girls from doing this regrettable act'. But you know what, God didn't stop them. Sometimes we feel, if what I am doing is wrong God should thunder from heaven. But God won't, He has given you His word, so you can know the right things to do. They desired something good and right but went about getting it the wrongest way. Their ignorance didn't stop the consequences from following them. The generation from that incestuous affair were out of Gods covenant. That seemingly logical, but out of tune with God action, put their generation out of Gods favor. Through that incest was born Moab and Ammon.
I am sure God must have desired to raise a godly generation from the daughters of Lot after destroying those ungodly people of Sodom and Gomorrah. But they missed God's greatest blessing.
May we not go about the right things we desire in wrong ways that will put our generations out of favor with God in Jesus name.