May 8, 2016 11:08 AM CEST
It's not easy to show love at this stage but that is definitely what can help the situation now while you pray more. God will help you.
A lady could not help out also so she resorted to treating her rivals nicely. One faithful night her husband brought home this young girl as his custom was. The woman welcomed them both, fixed water for the man to bath and the girl too. While in the kitchen getting the dinner ready, she noticed her husband was done but the girl could not move but was looking so lost. The man encouraged her to go and bath but because the girl was dumb founded she was weak to her bones. She never knew that the man is married. Again, the treatment she got from the man's wife confused her the more. Dinner was served, the man quickly helped himself and informed the girl to meet him in the room when she's done eating. She never knew what to think. Could this man have done this, bringing her into his matrimonial home for a plan to harm her or what? She quickly beckoned on the woman and started begging for forgiveness shedding tears profusely. She could see the woman looking pale and amist uncontrollable tears assured the girl that it is well. "I am almost getting used to this my dear, l've chosen to be nice to all my husband's visitors while praying God to change him someday for me". "Ma, l'm so sorry, l never knew your husband was married, please forgive me" the girl said. Because it was too late she could not leave that night but managed to stay and left so early not with the consent of the man even. That girl's act that night did not only change the man but the girl too. Could this be true you may ask? It is a true life story. That is exactly why Pastor Okunowo & his amiable wife keeps pleading, praying & warning small, young and old with the word of God to look well before leaping, to avoid swollen eyes later in life. So, my dear, be calm, patient, wise and then prayerful, you definitely will win him back because he is your husband. This is not time to apportion blames or crucify any of you with plenty questions. Thank God for these time of waiting, trust God, He will see you through in Jesus mighty name l Pray. Amen. Shalom!