2. He will shy away from introducing you

One other way you get to know if he is not interested in you is that he will simply shy away from introducing you to key figures and authority figures in his life.

The strategy here is to minimize interventions when he pulls off the carpet from your feet.

You see, everything is planned from Day 1.

You don’t get into relationships with some naive wishes and dreams based on some promises that hold no ground.

You can guard your heart against being ripped apart from time to time by being wise.

You can protect your body from being sexually plundered and then left in the cold.

Why would he shy away from introducing you to his parents if indeed he wants to marry you?

Why would he hesitate from introducing you to his pastor if indeed he has a plan for you?

If the only people he introduced you to are his inner clique made up of friends and cronies who are in the know and who are probably birds of the same feathers, then you should know there are more than skeletons in his cupboard.

Being in a relationship is not a game, it is the precursor to marriage. Courtship is supposed to be the last bus stop to the wedding.

When all you do is have jeru trap day after day, the relationship is already on the wrong lane, both with God and with man.

With God because He doesn’t approve of pre-marital sex. You simply lose His favor if you are habitually compromising.

With man, because your self-worth and value is being diminished each time you allow him to desecrate you.

Analyze the relationship. Weigh the actions. Don’t just foolishly hold on to what is obviously not working all in the name of love that only exists in your imaginations.

Love should be mutual. Commitments ought to be both ways.

It even becomes more dangerously intense when he is the only one you know. No friends, no siblings, no families,….you ought to smell a rat there!

And yet he is sleeping with you at his beck and call while you are imagining some wedding….Well, it doesn’t happen like that!

Sit down and take an inventory and be sure you are not chasing a goose!

May God grant you more understanding.

Your time will not be wasted.

You will not be ashamed.

God will help you in every area you need him in Jesus name!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not miss it maritally

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, open my eyes to see what I cannot see

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Eccl 10:10 (KJV) “If the iron be blunt, and he do not whet the edge, then must he put to more strength: but wisdom is profitable to direct.”

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Stay away from sin

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Heb 12