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• Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

  

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  September 9, 2015 8:09 AM CEST

  How can we be creative with jeru trip without sinning in marriage?

• Tejumade Ilesanmi

  

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  September 24, 2015 10:11 AM CEST

  pls I can't see responses
• Badmus Idris

  

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  March 28, 2016 9:45 AM CEST

  No reply on this yet sir
• Olusegun EFUWAPE

  

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  April 2, 2016 12:47 PM CEST

  Hmmmmm.
  Sex in marriage is of God and it is good and not just for child bearing but for our enjoyment... Full enjoyment for both husband and wife.
  
  God put those wonderful jeru feelings in us to be enjoyed to the fullest within the confines of marriage and if we must accept seek to maximise it to the the fullest.
  
  Its unfortunate that most of us grew up in environment were jeru tripping even in marriage is viewed as something sooo secretive that it has almost become a myth and mystery and this has followed us into our homes where God has given us go ahead.
  
  To enjoy and be creative about Jerutrip we must start to view love making in marriage as a thing of God and from God and that its Good.
  We must stop seeing sex as something dirty and sinful and wrong.
  That's the first step to creative jeru tripping. Sex is good and sweet and we can be very creative if we approach It with such openness and joyful zeal...
• Olusegun EFUWAPE

  

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  April 2, 2016 1:36 PM CEST

  As long as its you and your married partner the last thing to think about is sin. I am too married to be bothered about sinning with my wife when there are things for us to enjoy.
  
  So lets put sinning aside and focus on enjoying God's gift of jeru trip to the fullest. I hope God won't flog some of us when we get to heaven for not enjoying that great communion to the fullest.
  
  Also there are good Christian books written by Great men and women of God that can help to guide couples. That will through away the feeling of guilt and sinfulness that many carry into marriage about sex and open them to exciting techniques and sex positions that are there for the taking.
  
  Pastor Dunamis and pastor Sophia are here Championing this great cause. Call them or get across to them.
  
  Books to read
  - When a man makes love to a woman by Michaels Davids
  
  The good girl's guide to great sex by Sheila Wray Gregoire
  
  Now to creativity - Jeru is not just for the bedroom neither is it for night times alone.
  Also the hands and mouth are all begging to do their part.
  
  Openness and communication is very key too. The couple needs to talk and talk to a trusted senior couple (maybe pastor or our dear Pastor Dunamis and his wife) that can help accordingly.
  Many atimes its just our feelings that it cant be right to do this or that or say this or that.
  
  The reason we have white rice, jollof rice, fried rice , Chinese rice, coconut rice is all about creativity and people willingness to try new things.
  
  Same goes for Jerutrip if its a one way traffic thing just the same thing the same way the same place - it will become unexciting, monotonous and casual.
  
  Finally there is the story of a lady that wont allow her hubby jeru trip on Sundays because to her Sunday is "holy" - meaning sex is "dirty".
  One Sunday in church the pastor wife was preaching about Jeru and was talking about how she and her husband maximise this gift of God. Her husband was looking at her and guess what. She didn't even allow the service to finish before she closed and dragged her husband home.... The rest is history.
  
  Many atimes its just us denying ourselves what is there for our taking. God bless you.
  
  And happy Jeru tripping.