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From Gods standpoint you are already one flesh with your wife. Her issue are now yours. so I will advice you lovingly and patiently find out the cause of her not liking jeru trips. I am sure this journey together will even deepen your marriage. She will know you are genuinely concerned about her welfare and that of your marriage. It could be something very simple. Also talk to God about it. I am very sure there will be restoration soonest, you wont have to push yourself out into adultery. It is too risky to even think of.