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We are not in agreement!

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    August 15, 2016 6:46 AM CEST
    My fiancee and I are preparing heavily for our wedding. We also decided to prepare spiritually by fasting.

    I suggested we fast on Mondays, being the beginning of the week, she suggested we fast on Wednesdays, being the middle of the week.

    As little and insignificant as this looks, we've been on it for over four days now, as no one is willing to listen to the other.
    • 35 posts
    August 15, 2016 12:37 PM CEST
    Eerrrr it's obvious the devil is trying to keep y'all from praying and preparing spiritually. You're the man, the leader, you'll have to decide if the compromise of forgetting about Monday is worth the spiritual implication of preparing for your marriage.
    • 194 posts
    August 15, 2016 4:21 PM CEST
    Sir, this should actually not be an issue. You have not shown yourself as a man of the spirit that she can listen to.
    Thje day of the week should not be an issue except GOD expressly said so!

    If God did not tell you it must be a "monday", please, compromise and go with her. You have to carry her along.

    Over time, if you show spiritual leadership, she would not have to argue such things with you.