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lol...so you no longer desire her because she broke the rule of "first date"? I understand it can be really annoying.
Its ok to be angry. but its never okay not to forgive!!! As a christian, what she did is tooooo little a thing to carry in your heart and not forgive. That is a sign of immaturity.
Also, if that incident alone makes you to be so angry not to desire her anymore, then your decision to date her was strictly based on the physical and emotional feelings.
You have no deep conviction and spiritual leading to do it, therefore please tell her you are no longer interested in a nice way.
Tell her you are sorry you do not have that conviction for her.