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It is better you open up to your wife. Let her know the pressure you are facing. Also, either you or your wife should tell the househelp to leave and resume back once madam comes back (that is if you still want her) because it is better for your to terminate the househelp's job than for you for your marriage to end in disaster.
Also, you need to check how you spend your idle time. Since your wife is not around, get involve in church's activities the more, make reading your habits, listen/watch gospel movies, communicate with your wife more often than before, just think of things you can do to get yourself busy after a day's job.
I will honestly advise you take a trip and see your wife for some good jeru trips where she is and then let the house help go before you get back, also i honestly do not understand why a woman will leave a married man alone for over 6 months? a man that is used to being taken care of,cooked for and having jeru trips with his wife is now left alone for so long?this is dangerous,so schedule visits to your wife if you can afford it or just take your leave from the office to get good tender loving care before you explode.