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First, I thank God that you eventually got the courage to end jeru trap. But what you need to know is, did he really agree with you in that decision, did you take it alone, or he just wanted to satisfy you at that moment? Also, looking beyond your feelings for him, is he sober about the cheating and truly willing to change? If yes, then I'll suggest that you first put a hold on the marriage plans, both of you should have a spiritual head/mentor guide your relationship, while continually fine tuning your relationship with God. Then, set boundaries together and you both be committed to keeping those boundaries.
However, if the answer to those questions is NO, then you already have all the clue you need to walk.
You mean to tell me that you don't want to loose the guy that's not yours yet, whom you even caught cheating on you!?
Don't you know that is a rehearsal for an adulterous life in marriage!?
And the last time I checked, ppl do rehearsal so that they can perform brilliantly to the maximum during the live performance.
That means, it goes worse than this in marriage.
You can't keep him with Jeru trap! Let him go! His name is Abegnego!
PS: He's not born again. Yeahs! you heard me, he is an unbeliever. Spirit of Christ wil not do that!