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The issue is beyond perfume. You said he is harsh towards you. You need to re-evaluate your relationship. Talk to him about how you feel and hear what he has to say. If you are not happy consistently,then check again to see if you want to spend the rest of your life with him.
For any relationship to work there must be compatibility spiritually, emotionally and physically. I need to ask you sincerely, why did u go into this relationship.
Is it God that gave you the leading? or it is because he is a very "spiritual" brother which is what you want. My dear beyond the spiritual there is need for emotional compatibility.
If you communicate how you feel and he insists that you are too worldly, then I should say you are incompatible. A man should be able to care and show kindness and emotion to his woman.
God will give both of you people that will fit you spiritually and emotionally.