November 22, 2016 10:43 PM CET
Yes, he is wrong...Yes he behaved rudely to you, Yes he shouted at you...But who are you to judge or punish him. Were u created to be his Judge , conscience or his helper.
Who told you he deserves that punishment, who made you the leader of the home...Then you begin to think..see the way he shouted at me, the way you think, determines the way you feel, and the way you feel would hence forth determine how you would act..
How have you been thinking, and how have you been acting towards your spouse. Stop being Hateful!
Your work is to be his helper, to reverence him at all point in time, no condition was given. Don't get annoyed over little things. Always put on a smile, and settle any differences quickly, so that devil doesn't move in and create troubles.
Romans 12:2' Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind... Think about what you are thinking..
Always seek to please your husband, and (singles within the confines of obeying God. )
Don't let the devil into your home. Always forgive your husband, start practicing now, so that by the time you marry, it would be easier.
See what the bible says '
Ephesians 5:33Amplified Bible (AMP)
33 However, each man among you [without exception] is to love his wife as his very own self [with behavior worthy of respect and esteem, always seeking the best for her with an attitude of lovingkindness], and the wife [must see to it] that she respects and delights in her husband [that she notices him and prefers him and treats him with loving concern, treasuring him, honoring him, and holding him dear].
She respects, delights in, notices him, prefers him , treats him, treasure him, honour him and hold him dear....That's what the word says, the word is a lamp unto our feet and a light to our path....if it says we should do that, who are we not to if we want to have good success....
Let's know our role as Help meets to our spouses, not his conscience or Judges. If we honour him, God would honour us because we are obeying his word by honouring our husbands...
I pray God to help us all
Remain blessed...